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Aa;m1^:HMany people prefer having others make decision for them, for other's abundant experience provide more sensible choice. To my point of view, although other people's decision seems to do great help to us, I prefer making decision myself. That will let us be responsible for our lives, develop our ability to the decision making and build up the sense of self-dependence.S s}$y;f
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W5KFirst of all, making decision is my own business. No one in the world can make a exactly choice for us because we are the only persons who are familiar with our own situation. They can not feel the same way as we can and understand what on earth mean to us. It is such a big risk to depend on other people to decide the huge amounts of money or even you whole life happiness. In the ancient time, the marriages were rely on the parents’ decision. Parents could be the most people who know their children and were eager to helping them find a better person to accompany their children for the rest of their lives. However, this kind of marriage seemed to be more a tragedy than a comedy. Few people had pursuit their real happiness through their parents’ decision despite their abundant life experience. As we can see from the example, making decision ourselves can be a way more responsible for our lives%Hj;\/l$yOz
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Additional, making decision myself can develop my ability. Decision making is a kind of competence that could be trained generally. So the most efficient way is practice making decisions by ourselves from time to time. According to the physiology research, once you get down to a certain ability training, there remains certain trace in the development of behavior, which will be a helpful instruction and directly point out the best means when you are analyzing other problem in your next decision making as well as the analyze ability. Through the scientific research, we can see clearly that making decision ourselves is crucial in our approach to excellent people.VpR7h EuH
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Moreover, making decision by ourselves can give the sense of self-dependence and thus build up our confidence. I still remember that when I was 12 year old, I made up my decision to ride bicycle to school, though my parents thought that too dangerous for such a little girl like me risking my life saving the travel fee. However I insist on the decision I have made. That was really impressive. I felt so proud of myself because I thought I could consider problem on my own and I set aside the money I had saved. I was so pleased that it was me who decided and change my world on my own hand. This decision making let me gains the courage and confidence to all other challenge. So, making decision ourselves is significant in our lives. z(`k'?O3l
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In conclusion, making decision ourselves is a huge matter. No one in the world can truly replace you as the person to decide something for you. Judging from the illustrations I have set out above, I prefer making decision on my own instead of having others do that for me.

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