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发表于 2008-11-3 10:40:52 |只看该作者 |倒序浏览

Yesterday I had a blind date with a girl. My aunt introduced her to me and me to her. The day before yesterday my sister brought me through Zhongshan Park mall and bought me all the new clothes, from head to feet. She insist my taking a gift on myself, well, that's OK! I am reluctant to buy a chocolate. Well, it is really useful because when we meet I found the girl also brought a chocolate to me. That's funny!

We had talked before on the internet and saw the pictures of each other. I know some background of her. Her home is very rich, in my eyes. Because I was born in a worker's home. Although now My mother has found a good job and make a good salary. My childhood informs me that I belong to the not-rich family. And I am from a poor province, too.

So the first image of the girl is just what I thought of-------a girl who had lived a good life in a well-to-do family. Kind, sincere, but a little spoiled. I do not mean that she is rude and unpolite and selfish. I mean she is not with so much ability to make a living, though she is going to graduated with a Master of Law in Britain. And she is not willing to do perfectly in her job. She is a believer of "good marriage is more important than good job" while I do not agree.

And we went skiing in the afternoon. Two hours. I like sports such as skating, rock clinging, climbing mountains etc. Neither of us had skied before and we want a try. In the end, we can ski successfully. She is a little awkwark but not scared. I think that's good signal---she is not coward.

Yes, she is pretty, of course! But I do not have much feelilng on her. These days I start to believe that love is harmony in silence or talk without noticing the passing time. I have nerther of the two feeling. We seem to be on the different frequency or walk at a different step rate.

As I am going to apply for the PHD of the USA, I want a girl who can go there with me. Maybe she is a good choice. But I am sure there is many things that we need to negotiate with each other.

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发表于 2008-11-3 11:14:38 |只看该作者

什么东西...此帖必沉

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板凳

发表于 2008-11-3 11:31:39 |只看该作者

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看不懂就不要乱说话

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地板

发表于 2008-11-3 15:34:15 |只看该作者

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..确实没有看懂..都是英文.....

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发表于 2008-11-3 21:36:38 |只看该作者

sha bi zhen duo

All in!

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发表于 2008-11-3 21:54:13 |只看该作者

我很认真的看完了，觉得搂主写的很真实，也sincere。

我身边也有很多这样的女孩儿，心地单纯善良，漂亮可爱,但不知道自己想做什么，该做什么。
我个人的感觉是，最好先让她知道，出国做F2到底是什么样的一件事情，她到底能否忍受异乡的孤独，并且是否乐于操持一个家庭。还有，她是否足够爱你以至于能够make through

似乎很多美国的phd都会带上一个漂亮可爱的F2，呵呵，听说比在美国找的F1MM质量好