成都1000被拒，各位看官有何提议[非常感谢]
发信人: alanqin (听海成都), 信区: Visa标 题: 成都1000被拒，各位看官有何提议[非常感谢]
发信站: BBS 水木清华站 (Thu Jul 1 17:45:31 2004), 站内
6月29日成都遭遇BEN,惨败
V: what did you study?
I: I studied Economics at Sichuan University. It is a major on teach people how to make decision.
V: really? That’s what economics about?
I: Yes. Based on a lot of hypothesis and deduced conclusion, economics is trying to find best model to predict and explain people’s action and decision.
VO 一直摇头,我有点慌了,说话一直很紧张
V: you are going to study statistics
I: Yes. After the four years study, I find my analytic root. In fact, the two are different but highly related. In fact, my professor is a famous economist and statistician. (Show him professor’s picture)
V: which side did he concern? Micro or macro?
I: micro
V: micro or macro?
I: micro!!!
V: have you study econometrics?
I: yes! I got number one
V: ok. You got number one. What‘s the meaning of mushy curve? (这个名词听都没有听过, 傻眼了)
I: It’s about……. (用手在玻璃上笔划了一下) about…..employment….and……I don’t know it in English but maybe I know it in Chinese. (V 一直笑,摇头)
V: What’s your plan after graduation?
I: please see this picture
V: how much did you pay for it?
I: (很惊讶大声) I did it by myself with Visio!!!
V: why are you so nervous and angry?
I: because you don’t trust me
V: I don’t trust anyone here
冷场
V: what’s your plan after graduation.
我已经没有那种激情和状态了
I: please look at this picture, my future plan contain two periods, first I would work in government. To accumulate much various working experience, set my own reputation in my domain, to have good relationship with my potential clients
V: Since you decided to study MBA?
I: NO,NO,NO,the above line is my BF’s way to success, my way to success is this one. And we will get together here to have our own consulting center. For private corporation in china ( 我对这个时候说出的自己的归国计划简直太失望了,没有前提,没有过程,555,没有说完整,连我自己都不相信了 )
VO摇头
V: what did your parents’ do?
I: formally, people regard my father as a pharmacist in hospital and my mother is financial executive in PetrolChina. Their former employees still call them boss, they have their own company.
摇头打字
I: Do u want to see my projects, I finished 19 projects in the center of land collection and settlement, by doing them, I have been more …. (完全慌乱了)
V: you donot answer my question, you always told me information I cannot remember(盖章)
I: could you tell me why?
V: I have told you
I: thank you all the same.
整个过程心态糟透了,准备的东西说的东一句西一句的,搞不懂VO为什么一直笑,摇头,.唉,签证是这个样子啊,不甘心不甘心~~~
我其实是真的想读两年应用统计的研究生就回来的,但居然没有把自己的真心表现出来. 归国计划也想的很清楚, 但上去好像没有说在点子上,说的我自己都不相信了,5555….各位,给点意见吧~~~~~~~~~~~
BTW:在此我征一个成都的朋友为我的签友，谢谢大家读完的文章，谢谢 我觉得你的失败原因是-----不冷静、不自然，从而失去了和VO交流的机会，应该说，是你自己把自己的路堵死了。
尤其是，你根本没有必要显出很生气的样子
1。没有必要，反而觉得你小题大做，有“装”的嫌疑；
2。你这样结果就是堵死了你和VO交流的大门；
3。其实如果你当时以一种调侃的口气，来反驳他，不但可以活跃气氛、同时也达到了反驳的效果。
我个人认为，其实VO是很理性的，也很讲道理，只不过他们用他们的一套价值或判断是非的理论，因此，我觉得大不必把他们当成恶神，要以一种很平常的心态去对待，我觉得，签证是沟通，而不是去争论。
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