limpid 发表于 2005-6-21 01:07:45

有一种成功叫执着--SH 6/20 2000: 3/5自费 PASS!!!

从小到大, 我一直是个执着的女孩. 但在通向成功的道路上, 总是比别人进入角色慢, 却始终有坚持到最后的力量. 最难的自考我获得全省专业第一,最难的LSAT考试我也通过了, 工作了将近7年, 一直没有放弃我的法律职业理想.


以下是今天的签证实况

专业:      JD (JURIS DOCTOR)
奖学金:   40%奖
学校:      WASHBURN LAW


前两天一直无法从网上打开条型码, 所以索性用手写的DS156, 心想, 这样也好, 多等一些时间排队, 有利于缓解自己一贯以来的容易紧张的情绪,这也是我为何进入状况慢的原因, 上次考GRE也是因为紧张而是阅读发挥失常. 今天一早和母亲在宾馆吃了早餐后就打的到梅龙镇广场, 上次一签是我一个人来的, 当时的队伍是饶了好几个弯,我还被黄牛带去重新填写表格, 说是必须打印在同一页正反面上. 这次妈妈特意陪我过来一是可以不用费力去存包, 二是给我助力, 看着她日渐年迈的面容, 我下定决心这次一定要尽力! 可能是因为上海周一是二签的关系, 排队的人明显比上次少, 再加上都是50个人放一次很快就可以进去, 旁边的讲话蛮斯文的男黄牛不断地向我们推销前面的位置, 还要150元, 妈妈很可爱的回答说, 我们还想排在最后一位, 越迟越好, 那个黄牛马上一句话都没有了, 不得不佩服妈妈的敏捷口才, 也许她身上有法律的基因遗传给我. 不过排队进去那么快, 真的紧张, 二签的压力是很大的, 因为这意味着多年努力的结果,和未来几年的安排. 妈说我是队伍中最紧张的, 就象小时候最害怕在公众面前跳舞, 却要硬称坚强. 这就是我, 内心矛盾挣扎的我, 也是这种性格在促使我成长.

进了签证大厅, 果然没有条码的必须等所有人都交了材料才能交, 我虽然多站了1.5小时, 但感觉这能帮我适应这种签证的焦虑. 当我看到GFMM时, 还以为是另一个人,觉得她今天比上次NICE, 但说话还是不太耐心, 好在后来得知上次拒绝你的签证官会在二签时回避. 交材料的GG还问我上次被拒的原因.

过了很久, 当大厅只剩下1/10的人时, 我的号亮了, 是一为很有气度的GFGG.(有些细节省去,中间还有个I20表的小错误)

M: Hello Sir! Nice to meet you!
V: hello, how are you doing?
M: Fine! (give a smile)
V: You were rejected on the date of XX. and why are you rejected?
M: I did not explain myself well because I was too nervous last time.
V: Ok, don't be nervous now.
M: Thank you very much!
V: Have you graduated?
M: (faint! 呵呵, 看来我还是挺年轻的)I am chinese self-taught student,it is really
diffiult for me to achieve ..., i ranked the first in .....
V: You gonna pursue JD, so you wanna to be an american lawyer?
M: No! Not at all. I have mainly three reasons for studying law in usa.
    Firstly, I would like to be one of a few distinguished chinese who will
    reform chinese legal system in the near future! Secondly, I would like to help
    my country to meet international legal challenges since its entry into WTO.
    You know, people who are both proficient in English and familar with
    international law would be in great demand in Chinese legal market.
    The average amount of annual salary of middle class chinese lawyer
    nowadays is about 300,000---500,000yuan, it is really a valueble investment
    for my future.
V: would you show me the bank certificate?
M: yes, (hand in)
V: What does your mother do?
M: My mom is owner of business....
(I did not idle like last time, instead, I take the chance to show all important materials on my mom's company, its products and prosperity, and also the bank transaction records and other business activities since 2001.
M: (hand in)
V: (silent, and typing)
M: (keep my positive attitude and keep saying something about why I need a JD degree to develop my brilliant career in China)
V: Ok, would you please wait for a while?( still typing)
M: oh, yeah.
V: Ok.The interview for today is over.
M: Really? Oh, Thank you so much! Thank you for support!!( seeing that my passport lies besides him, not returned to me, I am so pleasantly supprised!)
V: oh, please wait, this book is for you.
M: Thank you!

整个过程中我很投入, 虽然言语开始有写颤抖, 语法也有时颠倒, 但我一直保持主动和坦率自信的状态, 要将这种状态保持到面谈是很累的, 但必须坚持下来, 我相信THERE IS WAY WHERE THERE IS WILL.



不要怕! 只要坚定陈述, 和他们坦诚相待, 就有希望!

我觉的只要把要点都说了, 如学习目的明确, 归国计划合理,财务状况可信, 还有随机应变,抓住时机 ,一定要把重要的说在前面 ,一定把上次被拒绝的地方不足之处补足

归国计划要符合实际, 让VO相信你的前景是美好的

对了, 大家一定要突出自己的亮点! 关键的关键!

终于要进入新的奋斗阶段! 我要在此感谢寄托VISA在线实时的答疑, 给了我再签的信心, 往日成功的案例和一签的经历使我得到启发和成长. 感谢TOTOO网上也申请法律的兄弟姐妹们, 尤其是BLUEHIHI, CINDERELLA, DETECTIVE, MICHAEL,等鼓励我再签,还有今天和我一起等面签的一个女孩, 你鼓励我一定要加油, 说你已经是第四签无所谓, 但我一定要签出. 还有二姨和二姨父, 你们为了我的签证一起欢喜一起忧, 还有外婆的保姆阿姨为了坚决鼓励我向前冲, 愿意在我即将求学的日子里帮我多挑照顾外婆的担子, 才使我有决心再去签.谢谢你还象妈妈一样耐心的关怀和珍惜我的未来, 我知道我一直有恋旧的情结,对前途有时优柔寡断. 是你们帮我战胜宿命的个性弱点! 最感谢的是一直含辛茹苦的母亲, 您的爱和智慧是我最珍贵的礼物. 还记得今天凌晨您在帮我把握面签的重点. 令我更加自信. 同时也一并感谢这次在领事馆外和妈妈一起企盼和祝福我的在上海的杭州姐姐,和其他叔叔阿姨, 谢谢你们在妈妈坐立不安的等待中给予安慰与希望, 当我最终那着美国的签证出来时, 妈妈哭了, 哭得好真诚, 好感人! 最感谢的也是我的VO, 他是那样认真地听我的陈述, 谢谢他的理解和认可! 我一定不会辜负您的期望, 做我所承诺的事业!

[ Last edited by limpid on 2005-12-13 at 06:53 ]

宝马威廉 发表于 2005-6-21 01:16:02

cong~~~
我也准备2000~~~

wenwen1111 发表于 2005-6-21 07:21:18

真是恭喜了!念jd真是不简单,我都只有申请llm的勇气,要知道我还一直都是学法的也。不知搂主能否留个qq号或者邮箱,偶有一大堆问题向你请教呢

limpid 发表于 2005-6-21 08:39:33

谢谢! 楼上的都加油啊... my qq: 516035670

[ Last edited by limpid on 2005-6-21 at 09:50 ]

pooh 发表于 2005-6-21 11:35:54

恭喜!坚持就是胜利

limpid 发表于 2005-6-21 12:26:58

pooh, 俺还记得你在G作文版的身影, 谢谢, 也祝福优秀的你成功!
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