SH-F1-BS-transfer-pass-有些建议，希望有用
背景：国内不错的大学，本科大三，转学去地方不怎么的学校也不怎么的美国大学继续本科，学分转了一大部分，专业：生物技术转生物化学（本质一样）,基本自费。。。今天运气不佳，遇上了工作狂认真无比的厚glass gg，坎坷经历就此开始。。。
Vo: how are you?
Me: 没反应过来，迟疑。。。fine, and you?
Vo: 精神高涨地 good, thank you…此时我已然等了近3小时，完全不能适应他的情绪了
So, what’s yourbackground?
Me: 如实回答
Vo: what are you going to do in the US?
Me: …transferto…
Vo: offer
Me: 把ad, offer, credit transfer form一并给了，并且详细解释现在是大三，过去继续大三
Vo: 点头示意OK
Whatother school did you apply for?
Me: ***
Vo: offer?
Me: I haven’t got yet
Vo: why?
Me: maybe they put me on the waiting list.Anyway, ## is my first choice, don’t bother…
Vo: first choice? En? Ok…
Inoticed you have a very nice scholarship, but still$$$ a year . who willpay for the rest?
Me: parents
Vo: what’s your father’s job?
Me: govern officer(想给财产证明没给成)
Vo: not highly paid, en?
Me: 火了,they’ve done good real estate investment…给了三本房产证，two of them are rented,趁势把存款证明扔进去…
Vo: oh, deposit certificate…(check n 久, 扔出)
Ok, why USA?(噩梦就此开始)
Me: for better education…(打断)
Vo: I don’t understand, what is bettereducation? Show me your transcript(看半天)
Nice school, nice gpa, why do you want to transfer?
Me: well…for better job preparation… I havemy future career well planed(打断)
Vo: what plan?
Me: I plan to …总而言之就是归国到制药公司找好工作之类…再次被打断
Vo: so… only bachelor, no master, no phd?
Me: right…看形式不妙，赶紧补充…and I’ve done good job research(小米一听research 来劲啊)
Vo: oh? Tell me your research?
Me: 查看这些公司招哪些人，向毕业工作的校友咨询，并且和我父亲讨论，提到：my father is responsible for foreign investment introduction
Vo: then he must know a lot about it (强烈感觉有嘲讽意味)
Me : of course. And I found that本科学历足够了，公司更看中你与人交流的能力，实验技能，专业方面的英语能来力…打断
Vo: I think your communication has no problem. Your English’s very good. No problem communicate with me.（赶紧说thank you） So why? Whyyou Chinese students always say it’s better in USA? What’s good about USA? Idon’t mean that USA is not good. I am from USA. Of course I think USA is good.Is there any problem with your current school or your study, your classmates or anything else?
Me: actually it’s a very good school and Ihave no problem with my study. What’s more, I’ve done very well with my study, Ialso got a scholarship last year. The problem is I’ve done so well, I want somemore challenging?看得出我已经开始乱编理由了
Vo: so you think it’s challenging?他看来很是对我的逻辑不解啊。。。
Istill can not understand…自言自语n久，差不多一个意思，我一度以为我挂了…it must be something wrong with the school, right? You have noreason…一看机会来了
Me: actually I am not quite satisfied withthe lab apparatus of the school…
Vo: 此时完全进入忘我状态的自言自语… I still can not understand …well, anyway, it’s your choice… have anice trip…小绿条飘出
Me: 此时基本气疯了,忿忿地thank you,走人
总结，无论问什么，坚持自己的答案，他可以怀疑你，but he will not judge you, just like he said, it’s your choice,只要合理，vo不会无理取闹的。另外，随时保持你的形象，微笑，语气，耐性解释.Good luck， everyone.
再冒个泡，刚才看到1.5bj被拒的mm的签经，觉得自己很幸运~~~看到这个帖子的后来者啊，我真的不知道是什么救了我，至少我坚持做到了以下几点：
不管vo说什么，怎么诱导，我都强调我绝对是个认真学习的好学生，这个形象很重要，并且拿出证据！！！
语气坚决，是就是，不是就是不是，拿出自己的立场，给出自己的理由。
语言就算不流畅，至少也要清晰，听清楚vo说的，也把自己的话说清楚,make sense.
保持微笑，千万不要争吵，也不要哀求，我看到的这两种人全都被拒了。
另外，我个人认为vo会给同时满足这两个要求的学生签证：有钱（奖或其他），足以支付在美的一切费用，不需要寻求其他经济支持；vo不是傻子，当然知道你们十有八九不会回来，为什么还是让你们去了？？？因为即使你们留美，也是对美国有利的。要满足这个条件，我觉得即使没有奖学金，至少要成绩不错，总之要有证据。大家觉得呢？
[ 本帖最后由 juju_sharon 于 2007-12-7 14:41 编辑 ] 占个沙发:handshake 最近很多大三transfer的都签过了 沙发???!!!很不容易....很有借鉴意义.谢谢(原来不是沙发...55555555)
[ 本帖最后由 scat041 于 2007-12-6 21:33 编辑 ] cong cong cong cong cong~~ LZ真厉害!
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