LG拿到了明尼苏达的offer,是个女老板,台湾人,offer上说先签6个月,让今年July过去。
接受offer同时,LG说想二个人过去。马上老板回复来坚持只要他一个人过去先(come first by yourself),认为 family burden 会导致他的研究 not possible to success。我们再回信过去说还是想二个人同去,因为。。。等等等。又很快老板回复说不行,如果你一定要这样,那她会 rethink 我LG是否 fit 她的实验室。奇怪的事情还有了,没过几分钟,她再发了email来,问你们有没有 kids,她认为这一点非常重要。于是老实回复还没有小孩。
最终结果是,LG还好四服从了那个老板的,答应一个人去。不过至今老板还没有给确认,也没有对 kids 的回答给出说法,不知道会不会再变卦。。。
这是最近三次来信的原文:
I like to advise that you should come here alone first, before you have all your family here. With your family burden in the beginning, it is not likely that you will be successful.
I like to make sure that you come here first by yourself. It is the only way you can possibly succeed. If you think otherwise, we will have to rethink whether you fit my lab.
I would like to make sure if you really mean it, and if you truly are committed to my lab. I do not like to see your changing your mind after we move on to the next step.
我没有理解错她的意思吧,反正看了真是害怕。。。只是本来认为明尼苏达还是个好地方。。。作者: sunkilling 时间: 2010-4-22 16:08:25