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我的个人背景：工商管理转社会工作在校期间有三年的志愿者经历

我们这组领到深粉色牌牌
等待安指纹时，我和前面一个学化学的JJ一直在观察vo,小声地交换意见——黄磊gg果然很水，而且果然像黄磊，而且像在“夜半歌声”里的黄磊（一见到他你就立即明白为什么了）~~；
另外一个半长棕黄直发的mm则是个杀手，不停地往外递白单子，神色凝重；
其余两个一个戴眼镜帅哥，一个长发微胖的mm则看不大清了。
坐了一会，一直盼着黄磊gg举牌，结果却轮到了长发mm。
第一个大叔，不知是干什么的，反正不是f1，秒过。（终于看到了传说中的秒过——真的只有三秒钟耶！）
第二位jj去开商务会议，说了好半天，据了。jj反复恳求：让我过吧，领导好不容易批了经费……让我过吧！不过无数事实证明，vo一旦作出决定就不可能改变了。
第三位jj去读mba，据了。对话没太听清楚，但我感觉很可能与她英语不好有关。
第四位就是化学jj，英语流利，证据充分，全奖，这已经足够了，但似乎仍有check之虞。这时，戏剧性的事件出现了，jj说她老公在卡梅隆大学，vo立即惊喜地说：“i graduated from that univ. too! 哈哈，皆大欢喜——大家记住这个可贵的情报吧！
第五位gg，自费去florida state，不知学什么的。讲了好半天，说实话，这位gg最后能过我挺惊讶的——他几乎每句话都pardon (gg看到不要生气哦) ，不过也间接说明f1的形势的确不错。
最后一个，轮到我了。

ME:Glad to meet you madam! i'm XXX (big smile)
vo: nice to meet you! (very nice, and keep looking at me)
   what are you going to study?
me: i want to go to Washington U to pursue my master degree in social work, so that when i come back to China i could become a qualified professional social worker.  here're my offer letter and scholarship letter.
   第一句话把所有初步信息说出来，第二句捎带提出归国的意向，最后主动把材料递进去。
vo: (while glance at the letters ) social work is a rare subject in China, why do you choose it?
me: firstly , i have three years' volunteer working experience, which makes me realize my personal quality and talent are more suitable to be a social worker rather than an ..er..office lady.
(eye contact and both smile)
   what's more, i believe social work is a very promising field in China. you know , Chinese society is now undertaking a huge transfermation; more and more social problems emerge. thus the public and government begin to realize they need the power of social workers to help soloving those problems.
   这两点一方面强调我的背景和兴趣，另一方面强调专业前景。本来还有一点关于未来收入和就业的，但我觉察到她似乎想打断我了，于是马上结束在第二点，准备接下一招。
vo: who will support you ?
me: i have a half tuition scholarship, you can see that (vo : nodding), and my parents will pay for the rest part. these are my financial materials and my parents' statement of income and work.  i made a list and did some calculation for your conveniece, i hope.
vo: (smiling happily) thank you, that's very helpful!
   (checking on the asset list and going through other materials)
me: both of my parents have been working in a large scaled state owned enterprise for more than 20 years and my father is now the chief expert there. their annual income is quite ...much ...(oops! but vo is noding-she understood what i mean) so money is not a problem in my case.
   始终主动递材料，信心十足地作出总结，而且我的财产清单简洁明了，转移了她对其他材料的注意力。其实我有几笔存款都是半年内的，而且房产证和汽车整也都只是复印件而已。不过如果她追问，我自然有应对。
vo:(begin to collect all the pages. i guess she already made her mind to approve me then.) what's your major in Renmin University?
me: it's administration. that's why i said i am more suitable to a social worker rather than an office lady.
vo: (smile and nodding)
me: oh, i also bring my resume and some pictures. I put a lot of work on it , and i'm sure you'l be interested.
   气氛正好时，她看似聊闲天似地问了这个我最怕的问题-这下，不得不明确承认自己是180度大转业的。不过，因为这是我的弱点，反而准备得格外充分.我的简历有照片和贺卡什么的，而且特意手写翻译，好像一个小的family album, 非常温馨而个性。我有信心，只要她看了这个，就绝对不会据我了！果然……
vo: (pointing at the pictures...) who're those children? what is XXX?
me: %^&*@... (introduce one by one)
vo:what do you think the biggest problem with migrant population?
me:@#$%^&...
现在已经是彻底的闲扯了。vo 笑着边听边整理资料，我觉得有必要在最后巩固一下成果：
me:  i just want you to know i'm not just changing my major suddenly by accident. i've been preparing for it since even three years ago. and moreover, social worker is actually a quiter rewarding in China now. i have some news clipping here as evidence...
vo: （终于怕了我了）no, there's no need to show it coz you'be been approved.
me: really? thank you very much!
小黄条和材料一起给我以后，我们两个大概都觉得聊得挺好，互相笑得甜蜜蜜。
me: well i guess i am your last client today?
vo: (ture around and check, shrug )no, still got one more.
me: oh~then come on, come on!
vo: (laugh)thank you!
me: bye-bye!
圆满结束！

TIPS:
１感觉沟通是最重要的。始终笑着，看ｖｏ的眼睛，当然要有礼貌。当成朋友一样来真诚沟通，展现自己的个性；如果能在这几分钟和ｖｏ建立起某种ｐｅｒｓｏｎａｌ　ｃｏｎｎｅｃｔｉｏｎ，就一定没问题了，不管是校友还是其他，情感是最有效的材料。
２主动递那些必须材料，我觉得一天被人问无数遍＂ｗｏｕｌｄ　ｙｏｕ　ｌｉｋｅ　ｔｏ　ｓｅｅ．．．＂的确很烦。
３充分的准备是自信的基础。我当时为了对付转专业的问题，细心准备了简历，结果这反倒成了我的加分项目，嘿嘿。

最后也不能免俗地说一声：多多谢谢寄托斑竹和各位前辈的经验！多谢了！

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