这一切是否超有移民倾向 嘿嘿 不过努力了那么久怎能随便放弃涅 we should fight for our future!
去年一千我和Terry的交流还算良好,从始至终他都是笑着对我说话的, 前面他已经连续冷血的据了五个F1,check 了一个四千全奖的。当时已经12点半,我是最后一个。 terry 说我这个专业在美很好找工作, 还说在他当签证官之前的那个公司中国人混得多么好。他的重点是工作经验。当时他叫我工作一年,今年再来。 我家有一公司,我说我再家族公司工作过。Terry 说家族公司(family company)工作不够,必须在外面公司工作+full time。很清楚地记得,他盯着我的眼睛说:“Believe me, this year’s work experience will be very valuable to you.”他最后要了我的GT 成绩 ,看了说:“I know you are a good student, but you need to work in a company.”盖章。我当时只觉得五雷轰顶,立即泪水涟涟,我想如果是ben可能会放条生路(前面看到过此类签经),不过terry只是连说工作对你很重要,最后说不要再哭了,你这样,我中午吃饭会很难受的。当时保安gg走过来给我纸巾,我抽了一张,他说再多抽点,多抽点。还是同胞好啊。希望能对大家了解terry的风格有所帮助。不过签证前一天踩点听小道消息,他可能这个星期要回来,再待不超过一个月。
开头的过程很清晰。前面的还在收拾东西,ben 就叫我名字了,还叫了两声。本来想说good afternoon.(12:40了)Very nice to meet you 。但他点了下头,极快的说了声:good afternoon,就叫我去按指印了。
第一个问题超级出乎我意料,他居然问我: How old are you? 上个月才刚过了生日,还不太习惯这个岁数,现做减法,差点说错。想当年我老板问我的第一个问题也是这个。老外真是让人faint啊。
后来就开始了具有ben 风格的大量问题型对话。他问得多 我答得很乱 所以记不起来了 抱歉 记得的有
why you want to leave your company now?
why study this? very few people study it.
you have no scholarship. That’s the biggest problem. Your parents have to pay for you.
Over 80or 90% of people don’t come back, why you come back here.这句话是个问句,但更像自言自语,边说边摇头。
what do your parents do?
还有一些在交流中突然问到的问题。看临场怎么应变了。Sorry 实在想不起了 饥饿和紧张使人记忆力衰退阿。不过我很清楚的记得他没有问我的回国计划,工作内容,(只扫射了一下ds表工作经历里的工作时间)工资,回国工资,重点在为什么去美国,和没钱。中间有一次我以为他在问回国计划,刚说两个字他就立即说,what do your parents do?(是第二次问我了)听他的语气,突然觉得他在帮我想让我过,立即说they have xxxx, you wanna see the business license? 看了我一眼,摆手,no need想给他看现在公司项目的设计图,no need. 银行证明提都没提。
记得我中间提到……give me a chance,他说ok i'll give you a chance to run away 然后就笑,转身猛敲电脑。我以为又被拒了,开始猛说。
互相扯了半天后,他突然说ok i give you the chance, 开始折表, 撕白条,but you know if you don't come back , you are hurting your country,偶立即表决心, 俺要回来 ,他说you don't understand me ,重复you know if you don't come back , you are hurting your country,看俺茫然状,递信封,白条,眼镜片后目光炯炯,说you don't understand me, right? you don’t understand me 第三次if you don't come back , you are hurting your country, anyway你回不回来是你的事,study hard.
另外,Ben和yymm, terry,在习惯上有点不同。Yymm和terry 是最后把所有的材料递出来,而ben 是看完一个递出一个,这样大家就能知道他下一个关心重点是什么,而对什么问题他已经有了定论。希望大家最后递出来的都是那个信封和白条。还有pick up time 上面是3:30,其实要等到4:00
As someone told me last week, Ben is a very very very reasonable person; you’ll be successful if you are confident.
Thank you Ben, you open the door for me to go to my dream school!!!!!
Thank you Terry, as you said, this year's work experience is truly valuable for me.
Thank you Anny, your rejection gave me the chance to rethink everything in my field.
还要感谢我老妈老爸,我的老板,we are both Gemini, and we are now alumni!J Thank you for all your support to me! And my Dear BG, GM, Zhou wei, lao liu, bo bo, Angela, Margaret, lala, winter