THE TEN SECRETS OF ABUNDANT LOVE

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The Power Of Thought  

Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs  and thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you recognize her when you meet her.

The Power Of Respect  

You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person  you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect ask yourself,   "What do I respect about  myself?"  To gainrespect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself  "What do I respect about them?"

The Power Of Giving  

If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give,  the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself, freely and unconditionally.  
Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship ask not what  the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give  them.  The secret formula of a happy, life long, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of whatyou can take.

The Power Of Friendship.  

To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outwardtogether in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are, not what they look  like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.

The Power Of Touch.

Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

The Power Of Letting Go.  

If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't  
it never was. Even in a loving relationship,people need their own space. If we  
want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts,and  
grievances. Lovemeans letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions.
"Today   I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the  
beginning of a new life."

The Power Of Communication.  

When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people youlove know   that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to saythose three magic words: "I Love You."   Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving wordit could be the last time you see them. If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say and ... why are you waiting?

The Power Of Commitment.  

If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and   that  
commmitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the  true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed toloving relationships.  When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationships from a strong one.

The Power Of Passion.  

Passion ignites love and keeps it alive.Lasting passion does not come through  
physical attraction alone, it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest
and excitement. Passion can be recreated byrecreating past experiences when you felt passionate. Spontaneity and surprises produce passion.The essence of love and  happiness arethe   same; all we need to do is to live each day with passion.

The Power Of Trust  

Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person  feelstrapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with theperson you love will never end. One of the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself, "Do I trust them completely and unreservedly?" If the answer is "no", think carefully before making a commitment.

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受教了。:)

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楼上的看了这么一点点就晕了，那说明你应该看更多的

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Originally posted by 燕鸥and小蟹 at 2005-6-26 18:05
楼上的看了这么一点点就晕了，那说明你应该看更多的

小燕厉害～～  ;P

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来学习！

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