后悔后悔真的后悔.

gougoujiaoUID: 2215738

你想过没有, 现在的老人, 累他们并不怕, 钱就能解决, 孤独, 寂寞, 和对儿女的思念是最可怕的. 这是你用钱无法买到的.

gougoujiaoUID: 2215738

你能挣多少, 你孩子的DAYCARE, 就已占去了你打工的一大半了.两孩子的教育基金, 就靠你劳工一人, 这不是开玩笑, 你别跟我说孩子长大后申请FOLLOWSHIP.
上学, 你要带两孩子, 除非你绝顶聪明, 你的岁数已大了, 记忆力也在减退, 这样做不是拿钱不当钱用. 现在的TUITION不是几百就能搞定. 除非你有奖, 但你有奖也必须给老板干活.

阿姨来了@-@UID: 115208

I am confident that I can handle because my major is medicine and my future major is nurse. I learned the medical terminology by myself already. If I can take the RN test I can pass it and find a job easily, but I can't take the test because of my majoy in undergraduate.My future courses will be online and it will give me the enough time to take care of my daughter during the day and review the text. What I will need is going to hospital every Saturday for 2 years and take the test of every course at night.

I experienced one year graduate study in a good school with two kids. I do think the study in college ranked 1000 or more is not difficult for me.:),especially almost the same major with my undergraduate study.

My son's education is free. 10 years later, he may need more money. I don't need to worry for his tuition fee now. I don't need to worry about mine either. It is so cheap in community college(only $8000 for 2 - 3years for H4). If I can be a techinicion in my LG's lab, I can pay the daycare fee also.:)

[ 本帖最后由 sunnyyx 于 2006-8-7 22:39 编辑 ]

阿姨来了@-@UID: 115208

原帖由 gougoujiao 于 2006-8-7 12:34 发表
你有两个孩子, 你还要上学, 同时还要打工, 你认为你会照顾好他们吗?

I was a TA when I was a graduate student while I took care of my two kids.

I am still survival  now.:lol

J猪猪UID: 2133029

我不怎么懂这个，我也是刚刚才到米国，看了楼主阿姨的经历，觉得心里很不是滋味。希望你们能够好运！

wuxiaol123UID: 205854

仔仔细细的看完每一个回帖，我该说什么呢？
单身的我选择沉默。

我对于下面的内容感觉很难过。

原帖由 sunnyyx 于 2006-7-1 05:25 发表
女儿现在很粘外婆,因为外婆代表了我们(只有外婆是从我们这里去的,我爸爸上次没来).就连外婆上卫生间,她也会在门口等着.跟我妹妹家的小哥哥说:外婆不是你的外婆,是我的外婆. 小哥哥说:是你的外婆,也是我的外婆. 她说:你有爸爸妈妈的挖.两个月前,她说:阳阳哥哥有爸爸妈妈的,我没有爸爸妈妈.我妈妈转告我,我更加难过....

xwzhaoUID: 181076

支持sunny 阿姨的决定，孩子当然还是在父母身边最好，生了孩子当然就要担负起养育的责任，困难时期老人可以帮一把，但一直把孩子扔给老人来养，长大了不是特别需要人了，再把孩子接回了，坐享其成，说得不好听点，是有些自私了。