我申请中的感悟——献给所有的gter

fwfwfwUID: 29520

实话说，事情好像不是写的这么简单。
每个人做决定的时候都会自然的用自己的“管理学”
真正不好判断的事也不是用什么管理学能管理好的，很多时候是碰运气。
命由天定。

wuzixinUID: 89629

楼上的：
是的，你说的是实情，有些事情不在我们的掌握之中。但，当机会在我们面前的时候，我们有没有为错过了而后悔呢？当面前有两条路供选择的时候，我们是怎样做出选择的呢？如果我们已经尽力了，但还是人算不如天算，那么，无怨无悔。所谓的尽力，不但是努力的工作、学习，更重要的是，掌握好我们的人生之舵，在我们的能力范围之内。

travelaloneUID: 114364

There are some things I want to add for further discussion. Yes, think is most important for our success. But we can not use our imagination as the base of our thinking. We must do research and analysis the related information. As Sunzi put it "Knowing yourself and knowing others, you can win 100 times out of 100 wars". Take the author's case for example, his target is to study CS in America but the truth is that it's very difficult for you to get an offer and visa in China. However, if he can get more information, he may find out that it's easy for him to transfer a major after he has landed in America. Thus, the better choice for him is to not apply for CS directly but MIS first then transfer. So we should try to get as much information as possible for our thinking. On the other hand, we can't wait to do something until we have got all the related information and be 100 percent sure. Sometimes we have to take risk because the chance can slip away if we don't seize it. When we are applying for a school, we probably won't be able to know how many others are going to apply and how strong other people's backgrounds are. Can you just wait and don't take risk of your application fee to apply? Seems a little contradictory though.:)


"美国更注重于match." Maybe it's true for most cases but there are certainly exceptions. It's said that each school will take in some stellar students by providing them with fellowships to stimulate other students' study and American schools like to be diversified. So it still makes sense for us to apply for some "保底" schools.

Hope we can have more dissusion about the above.

wuzixinUID: 89629

TO 楼上的：

    看来你在美国吧。

    1. 我的专业虽然是MIS，但很难拿到offer。（1）MIS一般在商学院里，奖学金较少。（2）要求的很多课我没学。我们学校的这个专业不知道怎样排课程的，误人子弟。（3）对MIS中的一些必修课程真的不敢兴趣，也觉得不会学得好的，大概是没有天分吧。（4）我计算机课程分数很高，做过相关项目，发过论文。现在你该明白我的选择了吧？

    2. “we can't wait to do something until we have got all the related information and be 100 percent sure. Sometimes we have to take risk because the chance can slip away if we don't seize it.” 这点我完全同意。所以收集尽量多的信息，进行有效的分析就很重要。这样，才能做出所能知道的最好的（不一定是最满意的）选择。

    3. 关于match & good 的问题。你在美国，我听你的。

阿姨来了@-@UID: 115208

极精彩的好文。很难得的思考。

有思考的人生才是精彩的人生。只不过是我们社会的客观条件，决定了大多数人的思考的方向和选择。

但愿你能一直坚持自己，保持很珍贵的思考！但是，会有一些困难。

EcoRUID: 113525

Just do it! Do what you really love to do and never get hesitated when you cearly see what you see. That's also what i have been trying to do.

wuzixinUID: 89629

谢谢大家的热心支持。我很高兴能把我的观点告诉大家，以供参考。也很感谢各位前辈高人的指点、批评、补充，让小弟受益不浅。在此我向各位鞠躬了！

    总结一下

    1. 我的文章并不是说让大家不切实际的去想所谓的自己想要的。我的观点是，不要盲目的从众，必须自己心里明白，我为什么要这样做，我的最终目的是什么。这样，当有机会的时候，你就能尽最大的努力把握自己的未来。On the other hand, 如果你总是埋怨生活的无奈，社会不给你机会，从而懒得去思考，那么，机会真正出显时，你也就不懂得怎样去思考了。可悲！

    2. 有的时候我们必须要在不完全确定的情况下做出决定。所以，提高信息收集和分析问题的能力就很重要。这样，你才能让问题尽量的明朗，从而做出最好的确定。我把处理问题的模式中的第三点改为：

if {材料足够 && 分析有效 || 必须要马上做出确定} 决策（包括制定目标和计划）；
else 返回1;

    3. 少点埋怨，多点总结与憧憬，人生就能更快乐。

wuzixinUID: 89629

每个人思考问题的方法、角度不一样，这是必然的。

starkidUID: 121535

你提醒了我。最近准备乱七八糟的材料还有工作的问题忙得不可开交。昨天还向朋友抱怨说我想放弃呢。不过，好奇也该算个理由，既然开始了，好歹要个结果吧。
对了，wuzixin 你现在在申请吗？