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我是J1 去做postdoc,9.19号,被1号“壮男”拒。
准备2000, 大家能给点建议吗。我对2000真的不知道有好大把握。
1000为什么被拒,最主要原因是什么?可能也是因为盲目自信,认为不会被拒,虽然准备的材料比较充分,但是过程看似简单,却最后让我感觉莫名其妙的被拒。
Vo: where are you going?
Me: I am going to xxxxx for a postdoc research training.
Vo: what about the research?
Me: It’s main about the mechanism of XXXXX. (没有完全说完,主要意思是这样)
Vo; en …so who support you?
Me: ****(对方研究所)
Vo: What about your income **** ( I had’t clarify his words here)
me: I have a stipend as Ph.D student. ( Then I took out my bankbook to him. He took a look then return me. )
[ note: Maybe I have a mistake here. I should ask him say again. The income is refer to in US , here, or as a job salary infuture.]
Vo: you got M.D or Ph.D ?
Me: both of them.
Vo. What time of M.D?
Me: in 2000.
Vo. And Ph.D?
Me : I just completed my Ph.D dissertation and defense. It will take some time to get it.
Vo: the exact time to get?
Me: I think it’s about at the end this year.
Vo: are you married?
Me. Yeah. I have been married at the beginning of this year.
Vo; If you return, what would you do?
Me; I would be continue my research in our Institute.
At that time, he is writing on my form. Then I took out my publication list and some papers to him. He had a look.
Vo: How much your salary now?
Me: it’s about 1500 yuan every year.
Vo. Every year?!
Me. Oh, sorry, every month.
[note: he ask the salary again. I still mistake he is referring to my stipend as a Ph.D student now. if fact, it is just a stipend for student. It’s not a job salary! Definitely! I have no any alert about him response, and then he was continuing writing a little long while. ]
Vo: I am sorry I cannot give you visa according ...
Mw: why, Could u… [I was very surprise at that time. 也许是我想的太简单了,可能觉得是过于自信, 搞错了应该签证的重点是约束力的问题,另外可能是看别人成功的签过,认为问的很简单,认为J1 做博士后,又是对方付钱,没有什么工资的问题。
Moreover, I am the last one in that morning. He put down the curtain and left without any explain. The time was about 12:20. ]
我一直没有明白为什么问工资问题,如果我第一次没有听清答错了,最后他问salary now? 难道他不知道我现在是学生没有工资吗? 1500/month,对于中国博士生来说是很多了. 是什么导致了我们的误解,我去那边做薄厚工资是3,6000$/year.但是这对于一个去米国做薄厚人,大家几乎都是这样的.他也看到了,在问谁support时,我注意到他当时他表情的.
我想现在该如何2000,改变我的状态.谢谢!请大家来分析批评. 真的,从成都做车回来的路上,想到还要准备2000,我真的体会到什么是身心疲惫,.还好有lp在身边安慰我,一路过来,希望坚持到最后一步才是胜利.
另外, 对于2000,我能改变的材料只有下面上次没有带的了.要不要补充上?
最近我们刚拿到的房产证,我们结婚前主要是在lp父母家住,结婚后才准备买房的,所以才办下房产证.
我读研究生之前曾经在外地医院工作1年多,是5年前的事情,要不要那里的工作证明及当时的收入证明呀?有没有用?
还有老婆,大学毕业后工作过,之后又去读硕士,要不要她以前工作证明及收入证明.
至于存款,象我们这样,不可能有多少钱,没有靠父母,现在这样就已经不错了, 拿他们的存款证明,我个人觉得对我的签证意义也不大.
我看别人做postdoc在beijing,shanghai的巨简单,没有一个问现在收入,现在一个研究生有什么收入,一直没有搞懂那个vo为什么问这样问题?! 而且我刚刚看到一个postdoc在成都也是1000被"壮男"拒的,问得问题惊人的相似? 难道成都这边真的和其他地方不一样? |
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