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题目：2011821NA
Do you aree or disagree with the following statement?
There is never a reson for people to be rude to another person.

In modern society, we more or less have the similar experiences that other people throw their unpleasant or aggressive emotions towards us for the purpose of hurting us. Similarly, we all have the possible point to express our negative emotions, which are regarded as rude manners, to other people. Admittedly we surely live in such a society with complicated relationships and environments, as far as I am concerned, I think by no means should people be rude to others.

Firstly, I believe that being polite is a fundamental requirement for a well-educated person and also it is a good manner and personality. On one hand, how you behave to others, rude or polite, can indirectly show your educational level and especially your home education. We all learn the basic manners to treat others from our parents such as honest, brave and polite. On the other hand, people all want to establish a relationship with those polite people. For example, we don't want to be friends with those who always speak dirty words and it make people feel embarrassed so they want to keep them away as far as possible. Therefore, in order to build a nice and even well-educated social network, it is necessary for people to behave polite to others.

Secondly, I also believe a sentence goes, “What goes around comes around", which means that how you treat others they will tread back to you. If you show your negative emotions to others, for example, you speak ill words to your classmates, they will never be polite to you in return since they don't feel your respect, as a result, you will have less and less people to show their respect to you. Then, people who are always rude to others will trap into a lonely situation and nobody wants to be their friends any more. What's worse, without supports and cares from others, how we can expect such a person can have a successful career in modern society which relationship acts as a vital role.

Thirdly, there is no denying that people will receive rudeness from others in our daily life; however, I think people should think twice about the reasons of the rudeness before they show their rudeness back. For instance, if a friend of you just failed to pass a very important course for last semester and you just make a joke at the point after he just looked at his score, how can you expect he will show a smell at you? He was so angry and you just laugh at him, we should understand the rudeness of him. Moreover, if people can dig out the deeper reasons behind the rudeness, we can learn more about others and strengthen our friendships. Just as the former example, if we stop making jokes at that poor guy and we have a talk in order to know why he was so upset, then, we can show our concerns to him and he will feel better. Thus, people should care about others' feelings and eliminate misunderstandings which are raised by rudeness.

In sum, I maintain that a well-educated person, who wants to have a good social network with others, should never be impolite to other people, and in this way can we understand each other better and live a happy life.