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发表于 2006-6-13 16:44:22 |只看该作者

文学城，华人，新郎，搜狐，不过如果在海外生活，还应该多看看非华人的网站。

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发表于 2006-6-13 21:02:50 |只看该作者

原帖由 blueslily 于 2006-6-13 13:56 发表
好想你啊！我儿子14个月了。想在你这取经呢。关于教育孩子的。

I miss you 2.

So happy to see you back again.

I don't know you and your kid until now. How about your dad and mom?

Did your dad see your kids birth?

My son is not good enough to be your sample:lol. I am trying to change him better.

I will send you QQH later.

[ 本帖最后由 sunnyyx 于 2006-6-14 04:56 编辑 ]

爱是恒久忍耐，又有恩慈；爱是不嫉妒，爱是不自夸，不张狂，不作害羞的事，不求自己的益处，不轻易发怒，不计算人家的恶，不喜欢不义，只喜欢真理；凡事包容，凡事相信，凡事盼望，凡事忍耐；爱是永不止息.

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发表于 2006-6-17 12:16:17 |只看该作者

美国孩子最喜欢的100本英文书

I find it in my computer.I can not find the original website. May it useful to you and your kids in the future.

这100本书是在1800位美国孩子看过的8000本书中，最受孩子喜欢的首100本书。专家推荐的那25本书大多数都在这100本书里。

NEA poll spotlights kids’ favorite books:

1. Harry Potter (series) by J.K. Rowling
2. Goosebumps (series) by R.L. Stine
3. Green Eggs and Ham by Dr. Seuss
4. The Cat in the Hat by Dr. Seuss
5. Arthur (series) by Marc Brown
6. Charlotte’sEeb by E.B. White
7. Shilob (trilogy) by Phyllis Reynolds Naylor
8. Hatchet by Gary Paulsen
9. Holes by Louis Sachar
10. The Giver by Lois Lowry
11. The Chronicles of Narnia by C.S. Lewis
12. Tales of a Fourth Grade Nothing (series) by Judy Blume
13. Sideways Stories from Wayside School (series) by Louis Sachar
14. The BFG by Roald Dahl
15. The Boxcar Children (series) by Gertrude Chandler Warner
16. One Fish Two Fish Red Fish Blue Fish by Dr. Seuss
17. Ramona Quimby, Age 8 (series) by Beverly Cleary
18. Pokemon (series) by Tracey West, Maria S. Barbo
19. The Babysitters Club (seris) by Ann M. Martin
20. Ralph S. Mouse (series) by Beverly Cleary
21. Little House on life Praire (series) by Laura Ingalls Wilder
22. Where the Sidewalk Ends by Shel Silverstein
23. Charlie and the Chocolate Factory by Roald Dahl
24. The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein
25. Clifford the Big Red Dog (series) by Norman Bridwell
26. Stuart Little by E.B. White
27. Where the Red Fern Grows by Wilson Rawls
28. The Adventures of Captain underpants (series) by Dav Pilkey
29. The Polar Express by Chris Van Allsburg
30. The Berenstain Bears (series) by Jan and Stan Berenstain
31. Animorphs (series) by K.A. Applegate
32. The Witcbes by Roald Dahl
33. Nancy Drew Mystery Stories by Carolyn Keene
34. The Hobbit (series) by J.R.R. Tolkien
35. American Girls (series) by Susan Adler, Valerie Tripp, Connie Porter, Janet Shaw, et al
36. Matilda by Roald Dahl
37. The Call of the Wild by Jack London
38. The Foot Book by Dr. Seuss
39. How the Grinch Stole Christmas by Dr. Seuss
40. James and the Giant Peach by Roald Dahi
41. Junie B. Jones (series) by Barbara Park
42. Stone Fox by John Reynolds Gardiner
43. Falling up by sShel Silverstein
44. A Wrinkle in Time (series) by Madeleine L’Engle
45. Brian’s Winter by Gary Paulsen
46. Amber Brown (series) by Paula Danzlger
47. The North Star by Peter H. Reynolds
48. Have a Nice Day: A Tale of Blood and Sweatsocks by Mick Foley(Mankind)
49. Number the Stars by Lois Lowry
50. The Outsiders by S.E. Hinton
51. A Light in the Attic by Shel Silverstein
52. Chicken Soup for the Soul (series) by various authors
53. Curious George (series) by Margret and Hans Augusto Rey
54. The Teacher from the Black Lagoon (series) by Mike Thaler
55. If You Give Mouse a Cookie by Laura Joffe Numeroff
56. The Balley School Kids (series) by Debbie Dadey, et al
57. The Hardy Boys (series) by Franklin W. Dixon
58. The Mitten by Jan Brett
59. Amelia Bedelia (series) by Peggy Parish
60. Mrs. Frisby and the Rats of NIMH by Robert C. O’Brien
61. Island of the Blue Dolphins by Scott O’Dell
62. Little Woman by Louisa May Alcott
63. Mr. Popper’s Penguins by Richard Atwater
64. The River by Gary Paulsen
65. Magic Tree House (series) by Mary Pope Osborne
66. The True Story of the Three Little Pigs by John Scieszka
67. Bridge to Teragithia Katerine Paterson
68. Hop on Pop by Dr. Seuss
69. The Complete Tales of Winnie the Pooh b A.A. Milne
70. Tuck Everlasting by Natalie Babbitt
71. Redwall by Brain Jacques
72. The Best Christmas Pageant Ever by Barbara Robinson
73. Where the Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak
74. Wringer by Jerry Spinelli
75. Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret by Judy Blume
76. Dear Mr. Henshaw by Beverly Cleary
77. Summer of the Monkeys by Wilson Rawls
78. Sweet Vally High (series) by Francien Pascal
79. The Adventures of Mary-Kate and Ashley (series) by Judy Katschke, Cathy Dobowski, Lisa Eisenberg, Nancy E. Krulik, Nina Alexander, Frances Lin Lantz, et al
80. Garfield (series) by Jim Davis
81. Magic School Bus (series) by Joanna Cole
82. Math Curse by John Scieszka
83. White Fang by Jack London
84. I Spy (series) by Walter Wick, Jean Marzollo, Diana Noonan, et al
85. Love You Forever by Rober N. Munsch
86. My Side of the Mountain by Jean Craighead George
87. The Trumpet of the Swan by E.B. White
88. Walk Two Moons by Sharon Creech
89. Draw 50 Airplanes, Aircraft and Spacecraft (series) by Lee J. Ames
90. Goodnight Moon by Margaret Wise Brown
91. The Adventures of Tom Sawyer by Mark Twain
92. The Rock Says by Dwayne Johnson (The Rock)
93. Tikki Tikki Tembo by Arlene Mosel
94. To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
95. All About Sam by Lois Lowry
96. Black Beauty by Anna Sewell
97. Ella Enchanted by Gail Carson Levine
98. Hank the Cow Dog (series) by John R. Erickson
99. Piggie Pie by Margie Palatini
100.Sarah, Plain and Tall by Patricia MacIachIan

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发表于 2006-6-17 12:45:36 |只看该作者

http://www.nea.org/readacross/resources/kidsbooks.html

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发表于 2006-6-17 13:15:30 |只看该作者

wa~你这个好.我都不记得那里看来的了.

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发表于 2006-6-30 00:53:35 |只看该作者

准备按照清单，到图书馆借书给宝贝看了。：）

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发表于 2006-6-30 18:38:47 |只看该作者

有孩子真幸福,赫赫!

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发表于 2006-7-1 03:11:48 |只看该作者

sunny jj 看你写的孩子得校长奖学金那段，我都要流泪了。
真的觉得你真有耐心，教育孩子真的太不容易了。
我觉得如果我是你，我肯定做不到。
为孩子付出得耐心真的是好多啊。

追逐远方的一线光

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发表于 2006-7-1 05:21:33 |只看该作者

后悔后悔真的后悔.

就说说如果是你,会怎么办?

把女儿送回去后半个月,老板就没批准LG毕业,上次答辩不让过,这学期还是不批准毕业申请.为此,我已经后悔大半年了:知道今天这个结果,我是说什么也不会送她回去的了.....看来,我LG至少要半年以后才能毕业了.我们原来的计划要改变,但是,我妈还是坚持要等他毕业再送孩子回来.说怕增加我们负担.

女儿现在很粘外婆,因为外婆代表了我们(只有外婆是从我们这里去的,我爸爸上次没来).就连外婆上卫生间,她也会在门口等着.跟我妹妹家的小哥哥说:外婆不是你的外婆,是我的外婆. 小哥哥说:是你的外婆,也是我的外婆. 她说:你有爸爸妈妈的挖.

两个月前,她说:阳阳哥哥有爸爸妈妈的,我没有爸爸妈妈.我妈妈转告我,我更加难过....从她回去以后,我一直都很难过.总怕她心里会太苦.

前天,她在电话里问我:妈妈你在那里啊?

现在,大姑姑(幼儿园的老师)放假了,有个在外地上高中的儿子.家里条件很好.姑夫很宠爱女孩(小姑有个女儿,他一直都很宝贝她).LG说,放她家,女儿会高兴的,玩的人多,就会少想我们了.

但是,我感觉我女儿是比较敏感的那种.八个月时候,我上学,从她和我分开第一天起,就不肯吃饭,只吃奶.我知道她是靠吃奶来确认和我的关系.也不肯自己睡觉,睡着了一放下去就醒.原来是睡得很沉的.看她实在是没有安全感,后来就都跟我们睡了./////后来,外婆带她回去,她心里又受一次震动,好不容易适应了,又换地方,我心里实在不忍.可是,不换的话,我妈妈又没有空间休息,不管她多好养,怎么说要管孩子也是一个小负担.

我一直想尽早接女儿回来.刚才跟他说.他说:1)我们是不是可以考虑让别人帮我们带回来?比如,新生?(可是我们不认识新生啊,女儿肯定没有安全感,会不会很吵?)

2).或者,航空公司"寄"过来?我有个朋友,在加州的时候,两孩子就是航空公司"寄"过来,每人加机票一百刀.

这两个注意对女儿肯定是没有安全感的,不过,一天以后,我们就团聚了,以后多关心她,她还是会好的.

3)还有,我带儿子回家.签证拿到就全部回来.

拿不到签证,我就带儿子在国内先上学.儿子应该是上三年级的年龄,不行就上二年级......我回老单位上班(我出来前是卫生学校的老师,至今还保留着我的位置),我也顺便把中国的护士的证书拿到手,过来直接考RN执照,也就不要再读书了.

4)让女儿先跟大姑姑试试看,外婆跟去过度一个月.等她上幼儿园了,就没事了.大姑姑很好的,愿意帮忙.婆婆家里也全她们管,一点也不要我LG分心.

爸爸妈妈年纪一点点的大了,我一点帮不上,心里已经很内疚了,加上女儿还是他们帮的忙,就更难过了.我想我把女儿带过来,怎么说对大家都好一些的.我妹妹说,爸爸妈妈是不要我操心的,她们会管好的.俩妹妹经济条件都不错,有一个是医院工作的,爸爸妈妈的身体什么的也会照顾好的.

早知道这样,我都不考试申请读学位了.女儿也不会一次次的折磨.后悔后悔真的后悔.

我的CASE讲清楚了吗?