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送交者: info 2002年10月25日17:33:49 于 [卑诗华人社区]http://www.bbsland.com  

  

I have just read the stories of Asian women being attacked in Vancouver. I am saddened
beyond words and grieved deep into my soul.

Years ago when I still lived in Vancouver, I started my own English tutoring service,
and I had many young, beautiful Asian women as my students. These young ladies were
wonderful, kind, enthusiastic, eager to learn, generous, and a true joy to teach.
Though I have since moved on to full time teaching at a university now, I still look
back on those days as the greatest time that I ever had in teaching. I even met my wife
through my tutoring, and weve been happily married for 12 years now!

But now I do not think I could possibly do my tutoring today if I were to start up
again. Unfortunately, these creepy lowlifes who prey on Asian women are still around,
(I even had to pound two of them into the ground because they were bothering my
students) and they have surely ruined it for any legitimate tutor who wants to make a
difference in the lives of these good women. But now, not only are they caddishly
bothering them like they have always done, but they are actually attacking them!

So if I may, I would like to offer some advise for students out there, so they do not
get harmed.

1. Never go with an unsolicited tutor! Check out if your school has a list of legit
tutors out there. If a tutor has a good rep, then the language school will recommend
them.

2. Beware of posters on the street advertising tutoring services. I used this method
myself, but now I could never recommend it. These days, any weirdo can put up a poster.
Refer back to Rule #1.

3. Ask your friends and fellow students if they know of a good tutor. A good tutors
reputation travels fast, so surely someone knows someone.

4. Even when you get a recommended tutor, be sure to meet for the first few times in a
public, open place with plenty of people around. If the tutor tries to go
somewhere "quiet," do NOT go! Up to this point, the tutor may well have fooled
everyone. Build up trust first, on your own terms. You may also want some trusted
friends to come along with you, so they can check out the tutor themselves, and then
give you feedback.

5. And finally, do NOT date your tutor! Now this one may seem laughable but I am
serious. A tutor is a tutor, period. If he asks you out "for drinks afterward," then
run - do not walk - RUN to the nearest exit! If your tutor is falling in love with you,
or you with him, then please end the teacher-student relationship and then take it from
there. This is what I did with my wife, by the way, and it all worked out well!

In the meantime, my thoughts and prayers are with all of the victims of these monsters,
and I hope that the ones not caught yet will be nabbed before they harm another. And to
the students, please be careful and safe.

加菲熊UID: 103463

女性自我保护安全常识


送交者: fraser 2002年10月25日17:34:29 于 [卑诗华人社区]http://www.bbsland.com  

  

不论在家中、或街上遭到劫色者袭击，警方专家认为最好选择逃走，保全自身的安全，迫不得已才还击。

　　如果独居于一所住房，应安装有防盗眼的防盗门。开门之前一定要籍此查明来着身份；

　　更朋友约定实用特别的敲门方式，但在开门之前，仍需先确定来着身份，以防匪徒可能偷学了，
冒充友人；

　　如果感觉此时来者不善，又巧独自一人在家，走进大门时，故意提高嗓门作对话样，如"老公，
我去看看谁在敲门！"。然后从防盗眼察看来着身份；

　　尽可能结伴同行直至家门；

　　若乘出租车回家，可请司机尽可能送抵家门；

　　晚上出门应走在灯光明亮的街道，不要走进偏僻的小巷或荒地；应走在靠近车道的人行道上行
走，若人行道较黑，在保证安全的情况下，可走在马路边。这样即使有人埋伏在小巷，也不能马上接
近自己；

　　在马路上行走时，最好沿着迎面有车来的一边行走，这样实袭击者无法悄悄从背后接近。

　　不要乘不认识人的便车；

　　若有多个可疑的人，尽可能绕开他们走；

　　天黑外出，最好携带手电筒，万一遇袭，可用手电筒照射袭击者的眼睛，使其眼花，便于自己逃
脱。手电筒也可用作短棒，进行自卫；

　　怀疑有人跟踪，应穿过马路并观察周围情况，并判断此人是否紧随；若确实被跟踪，立刻向人多
的地方走。尽快在公共场所，如商店、餐厅等借电话报警。告诉警察跟踪者的相貌等情况；

　　切勿在僻静街上的电话亭内打电话求救，以免被匪徒堵在电话亭内。

　　如无路可走，在劫匪靠近前，抓住一些硬物在手中，如梳子、钥匙、瓶子等。将钥匙之类的硬
物，夹在食指和中指间握拳，使钥匙的末端从拳头中伸出，用以打击匪徒；可用梳子的尖端戳其脸、
眼；使用这些临时武器时，事先要隐蔽。待匪徒扑上来时，乘其不备，猛烈打击；

　　若手无寸铁，高声痛骂，义正言辞，以泼辣姿态吓退匪徒；如果被匪徒抓住，自己动弹不得，最
好的办法就是佯装顺从，从而尽量拖延时间，司机逃脱。或施展口才，设法说服匪徒。一旦有机会接
近他人，马上呼救。

　　脱险后应即刻打电话报警，向警方详细描述匪徒的身材和相貌等特征。

dearyyUID: 20018

呵呵 很实用耶  谢谢钾肥兄！
但这句话似乎有点问题：
“在马路上行走时，最好沿着迎面有车来的一边行走，这样实袭击者无法悄悄从背后接近”
我觉得应该是沿着背后有车来的一边吧？这样子后边如果有人的话，就可以看到他的影子了！对不？