writing: Most people like other people to make decision for them. but other not.which do you perfer?Use specific reasons and details to support your answer.
speaking: Do you agree or disagree: Students should wear uniform in school?
Writing:
While we are makingdecisions, someone will ask people for advice and do whatever they say, butothers not. As far as I concern, listening to other people's opinions ishelpful to avoid pitfalls and preclude carelessness, but a person should stillmake decisions by himself/herself, because the one who make the decision shouldtake responsibility to it.
Sometimes asking foradvice is beneficial, especially from those who have the relevant experiences.For example, after four-year study at university, a student wants to make adecision between continuing education or finding a job; it is helpful to talkto the people who have made the decision before. Different people in differentposition may give different advice, such as a senior executive in company maypersuade the student to find a job while a professor prefers to stay in school.These recommendations and advice are very useful and the student can learn fromtheir experience to best evaluate his/her own situation comprehensively. However, in the end, since the student cannotlisten to both sides, he/she has to make this decision alone.
At the same time, anotherdetermining factor is that in some situations if the decision will not onlyimpact the decision maker but also other people around him/her, one shouldconsider others' opinions and feelings. For instance, a husband and wife shouldcommunicate with each other before quitting or changing a job, since aunilateral change may affect the whole family, such as the household income,the time they can spend together, or their children have to transfer to otherschool.
In conclusion, thoseopinions from the experienced people are valuable and useful that one can usethem as important references, a person can discuss with other people, makedecisions together or alone, but one cannot let others take his/her place andmake decisions for him/her. The person who has to live with the decision shouldmake it himself/herself.