7.17 BJ master 自费 2000 被拒 极度彷徨

ehandUID: 2197173

本人5年北京工程师工作经验，去NJ读EE master，女友F1 1000成功

7.3 1000 褐发mm
Me: nice to meet you, madam
VO: what is your job?
Me: blabla.
VO: who will pay for you?
Me: my aunt.
VO: is she oversea? (我姑姑的资助是美国银行开的)
Me: yes
VO: Do you have financial support from your parents?
Me: I don't have that.
开始不理我了，敲电脑，我感到不妙
Me: I have some other evidence to show you.
VO: No.
几秒钟后
VO: I don't believe you will come back.
Me: Do you want to have a look .... 挣扎无效Thank you.

7.17 2000 下午本来只有3个VO，突然HMM上班了，把我那个队提了出来，心中一阵冰凉，命苦呀
Me: Good afternoon, madam
VO: 并不看我，查电脑上我的信息
Me: This time I have a big change, last time I was rejected because I was supported by my oversea aunt and I didn't prepare my parents financial certificate. At that time, I didn't realize that there is a big difference between them. Today, I bring my parents financial certificate, do you want to have a look? (我开了33W RMB , 2W USD, 我一年的学费3W)
VO: sure.
Me: (在他看的时候继续) Money is totally not a problem for my parents, both of them has a decent job. My father is a ...
VO: (打断我) why you will be supported by your parents.
Me:  I can explain that, I did make a lot of money in recent years, but I put all my money into my new house, here is the certificate of my new house. It spent me about 50W.
VO: give me.
Me: (高兴呀，我的stong tie) And this is the picture of my house.
VO: ok, that is your parents, and which one is your house?(楼房)
Me: 4 floor, middle
VO: where is your house.
Me: blabla
VO: how much your salary a year.
Me: 100,000.
VO: how long you work in your company?
Me: blabla
VO: 计在DS-156上
Me: 我正在说我的工作
VO: (打断我)why you choose to study in US after you work several years.
Me: I want to update myself, I need more academic study and more advanced technology to help me to pursue a high level position after I graduate from US.(我总是被打断，思路有点乱，准备了好多没说出来，后悔呀)
VO: Do you have any relatives in US.
Me: (我知道有记录，照实说)  I have an aunt who live in california.
VO: why did she support you last time?
Me: in my family, there is no difference between be supported by my parents and be supported by my aunt. My aunt is a very close relatives of mine, she just cares about my future development.
到这时我还没有特别不好的预感，象大家说的HMM就是问的很多。但不幸的事发生了HMM转身拿出了那张惨白的纸，我的心都凉了，please give me a reason, I can explain that.
VO: (用她真诚的眼睛看着我) you told me everything I want to know, and the reason I refuse you is on that paper.
最后的挣扎声音有点大，保安在我身后出现
Me: Thank you. 撤退

我现在真的需要大家的建议，我知道我第一次犯了很严重的错误，本来有我父母资助早就过了，但是情况已如此。真是不甘心就此放弃，又约了7.27的，可是真的不知道给怎么准备了。恳请指点，感激不尽。

[ 本帖最后由 ehand 于 2007-7-18 23:44 编辑 ]

葵香飘飘UID: 108259

嗯。。帮顶。海外亲属资助一定不成么？明明就有看到有人也是这样的情况就过了啊。。。
另外感觉归国计划说的不是太convicing，三签的话如果在这方面加强会否有帮助？

magic_zhaoUID: 2137791

不知道是否楼主前段时间也发过1000被拒的签经.
当时有个几乎相同的帖,就说过, 这样会导致以后签证的问题.

现在VO比较明显就是觉得你父母的资助有问题.
在家庭能资助的情况下,全部由亲属资助. 除非亲属是很有钱,资助资金完全不成为什么负担. 毕竟资助是无偿的.
否则很难让人不质疑.

"VO: (打断我)why you choose to study in USafter you work several years.
Me: I want to update myself, I need more academic study and more advancedtechnology to help me to pursue a high level position after I graduate fromUS.(我总是被打断，思路有点乱，准备了好多没说出来，后悔呀)"
这个问题可以再解释详细一些. 估计你应该是准备好的.

总的来说,别的都没有太多问题.
但关键有个大硬伤.
如果可能,针对I-20表上的资金提供方做一点解释.
如果是你父母, 那就对解释家庭有资金有利.
如果是亲属,解释为什么当时由她开的证明.

版内请不要讨论中介的问题.谢谢!

kevinhrmUID: 2158364

如果简单地说是想拿个美国学位然后回国就能升迁，是很难过关的

ehandUID: 2197173

感谢两位斑竹回复

我姑姑确实是为了帮我，打算好提供给我2年的学费，但1000后，我不得不改成父母资助，我也没作假，那确实是我们自己的钱，而且33W是06年10月存的，只不过是一笔存入，不过我有更早的历史纪录。我当时是考虑姑姑提供的资助更多更久，自认为没有问题，望后人谨记呀。HMM好像还有点质疑那些钱是不是都是我父母的，（我父母年收入14W）但她没让我解释。难道下次只给他看33W的部分，我又怕他说资金不够，左右为难呀。
I-20表上的资金提供方是family funding，我想姑姑和父母都属于famiily，不知如何解释
我没有作假，他们却不愿相信，sigh
我想知道像这种情况有没有成功的，我不会是第一个吧。

[ 本帖最后由 ehand 于 2007-7-19 00:14 编辑 ]

kevinhrmUID: 2158364

在你的case里，我不觉得资金是个大问题，我觉得首要的问题是VO觉得你自己根本没有认清楚为什么要去美国留学以及你能得到什么？机会成本你怎么弥补？将来怎么发展？你的人生规划是否清晰？

古怪蛋UID: 2186045

好象北京也受到成都影响了,严酷啊

KellyClarksonUID: 2176602

你一开始有点画蛇添足，把你姑姑牵扯出来，让vo一下子注意到

shenUID: 200415

感觉两次都没有怎么说明白自己的求学目的，归国计划，一直在资金上纠缠，除非你家真的有个几千万，不然这样自己的纠缠好像是不利的吧。

sinicalUID: 170843

同意版主 你的资金不是问题

为什么去美国要说清楚
如果你自己真的清楚 呵呵