Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? Most experiences in our lives that seemed difficult at the time become valuable lessons for the future. Use reasons and specific examples to support our answer.
There is no denying the fact that difficulties are essence in everyone’s life. It seems that it is the fate that everyone has to go through this unpleasant experience which will accompany him/her for the whole life. Some people hold the view that most experience in our lives that seem difficult now will become valuable lessons in the future. I cannot agree with them any more. There are numerous reasons why I hold confidence this view, and I will explore a few primary ones here.
First of all, difficult experiences are beneficial to our personal growth. From child, our parents and teachers always told us that there is flat and paved road for nobody and we have to explore the road by myself. At the beginning of our life, we are ordinary rocks that attract nobody, the water serve as the difficulties in the way to success, the rocks can transform to diaphanous stones only when experience the flush of water. Understandably, we know nothing about the uncertainties of the future, but we should have the awareness that if we cannot be scared by the knottiness along the road of life. Only when we have the courage to overcome the obstacles can we have the hopes to reach success.
Furthermore, some obstacles in our work can help us gain more experience and knowledge. We can obtain knowledge faster and easier through experiencing the difficulties and finding the solutions to overcome these barriers. There is an old saying goes, “no pain, no gain”. For instance, when we find a new job we have not experienced before, we may feel enormous pressure and be extremely painful. And we will try to adjust, by learning and thinking how to figure out the hinges. The more difficulties we feel, the harder we will try to learn the skills and knowledge to settle the problems. This kind of learning which is under pressure is always more efficient than usual study. At last, after we solve all the difficulties, we may become an experienced work in this field and aware of the merits of challenge. Hence, some barrier in our way life is of great value.
In conclusion, it is the difficulties that can help us to achieve our success. They are requisites and valuable lessons in our lives.