TOEFL 2009上半年-Dark_Tournament写作组liurui8802第二十四次作业

liurui8802UID: 2595045

Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? Letting a friend make a mistake is better than saying or doing something that may destroy the friendship. Use specific reasons and examples to support your answer.
For most parts, we find the affinity to other people when we believe them. In short, trust is the foundation of friendship. Only when we have faith in each other, can we share our most genuine feelings and express our true thoughts. In this way, we shall not be mad if our friends hold a totally different or, in some cases, opposite view from us.Instead, we weigh their suggestions and be grateful to them for their love and concern.

With the deep foundation of trust, I often tell my own opinions to my friends when they turn to me for help, especially when the case he/she brings up is vital to his/her life or career. Since these big decisions may affect them all through their lives, they come to me for my opinions, not simply sweet words beyond true thoughts. For example, a friend wanted to study abroad, which could be a hard burden to his family. Besides, the field he wanted to specialize in was not very competitive in the country he planned to stay. Considering all these disadvantages, I told him my true opinions. Now he is working in a Chinese company, doing the job he loves. In comparison, his classmates who went abroad did not do well when they came back. He credits me for his correct choice, which fits his character, not caters to the trend of going abroad.

However, there may be some time when I find it better not to persuade my friends into doing or not doing something. Under some circumstances, the difficulties are so personal that nobody is able to help.Quarrels between lovers or parents can be good examples,for it is hard to say who is right or wrong. In such cases, I prefer not to give "pushy" suggestions, but only help friends get alleviated from the sorrow and leave the problem to his/her own. Too much interference can be very annoying as to destroy precious relationships between my friends and I.

In conclusion, I give my opinions when I find it proper to do so, and not to offer my views when problems are too personal. It is a balance that I try to strike between truth and relations.

zhen_hustUID: 2376732

lz好能坚持啊，很有一定功底

btw：我也是报的5/16号武大考场

mimicaUID: 2457275

For most parts, we find the affinity to other people when we believe them. In short, trust is the foundation of friendship. Only when we have faith in each other, can we share our most genuine feelings and express our true thoughts（好句）. In this way, we shall not be mad if our friends hold a totally different or, in some cases, opposite view from us.Instead, we weigh their suggestions and be grateful to them for their love and concern.  w( J. M( P2 I2 l& B+ q
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With the deep foundation of trust, I often tell my own opinions to my friends when they turn to me for help, especially when the case he/she brings up is vital to his/her life or career. Since these big decisions may affect them all through their lives, they come to me for my opinions, not simply sweet words beyond (这个词用这合适否？)true thoughts. For example, a friend wanted to study abroad, which could be a hard burden to his family. Besides, the field he wanted to specialize in was not very competitive in the country he planned to stay. Considering all these disadvantages, I told him my true opinions. Now he is working in a Chinese company, doing the job he loves. In comparison, his classmates who went abroad did not do well when（until更好） they came back. He credits me for his correct choice, which fits his character, not caters to the trend of going abroad.

However, there may be some time when I find it better not to persuade my friends into doing or not doing something. Under some circumstances, the difficulties are so personal that nobody is able to help.Quarrels between lovers or parents can be good examples,for it is hard to say who is right or wrong. In such cases, I prefer not to give "pushy" suggestions, but only help friends get alleviated from the sorrow and leave the problem to his/her own. Too much interference can be very annoying as to destroy precious relationships between my friends and I.

In conclusion, I give my opinions when I find it proper to do so, and not to offer my views when problems are too personal. It is a balance that I try to strike between truth and relation（ship）s.

感觉和题目的切合点偏了一些。

呵呵，坚持看楼主的作文也是一种收获！考期临近，一起加油！！～～