TOEFL 2009上半年-Dark_Tournament写作组legolastu第二十四次作业

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第二十四次作业:

06/30/07: Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? Letting a friend make a mistake is better than saying or doing something that may destroy the friendship. Use specific reasons and examples to support your answer.

本周六(4月25号)晚上十点前交

Everyone makes mistakes.One can not avoid making faults but can just learn from the lesson and gain knowledge and experience.But it does not mean that one should abandon his friends to directly come into the wrong directions without being warned.In my opinion,helping one’s friends keep away mistakes is part of the real friendship.
To start with, some of those advocates of the former attitude would point out that making mistake is part of a man’s growing.Since mistak is the best teacher of the person,why should a person take a risk by telling his friend to change the goals or behaviours?Letting one learn from the mistakes on his own as well as the smooth friendship can be the best choice.
Then how can we define the term of “friendship”?To share the happiness as well as the sorrow,tell the weak point of the friends heart to heart,grow together and not let a people behind is the well-known estimation.If the friendship is true,one should give his friend a hand withour hestitatio,because that can just do good to his friend.Devoting oneself to his friend is actually of great value of one’s characters.Besides,if one can just appreciate you but not inform you of the disadvantages of yourself,he is not a pure friend.
Additionally,if a friend of you can only receive the appreciation but can not avoid the criticsm,or even break up with you just because you tell him not a make a mistake,he is actually a failed friend.And since he does not value the friendship between you,how would you afraid of losing such a friend?Just keep your blank mind and let him make the choice.
To conclude,it is better to tell the truth of the things to your friends.One one hand,a real friend of you sould receive the comment with thanks and correct his faults.On the other hand,if the friend can not accept your good opinion,that means he regarding the relationship between you is of less value,and it is unnecessary to feel unhappy to loss such a friend.

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Everyone makes mistakes.One can not avoid making faults but can just learn from the lesson and gain knowledge and experience.But it does not mean that one should abandon his friends to directly come into the wrong directions without being warned.In my opinion,helping one’s friends keep away mistakes is part of the real friendship.:
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To start with, some of those advocates of the former attitude would point out that making mistake is part of a man’s growing.Since mistak is the best teacher of the person,why should a person take a risk by telling his friend to change the goals or behaviours?Letting one learn from the mistakes on his own as well as the smooth friendship can be the best choice.1 @: Z" i- k* G
Then how can we define the term of “friendship”?To share the happiness as well as the sorrow,tell the weak point of the friends heart to heart,grow together and not let a people behind is the well-known estimation.If the friendship is true,one should give his friend a hand withour hestitatio,because that can just do good to his friend.Devoting oneself to his friend is actually of great value of one’s characters.Besides,if one can just appreciate you but not inform you of the disadvantages of yourself,he is not a pure friend.

Additionally,if a friend of you can only receive the appreciation but can not avoid the criticsm,or even break up with you just because you tell him not a make a mistake,he is actually a failed friend.And since he does not value the friendship between you,how would you be afraid of losing such a friend?Just keep your blank mind and let him make the choice.

To conclude,it is better to tell the truth of the things to your friends.One one hand,a real friend of you sould receive the comment with thanks and correct his faults.On the other hand,if the friend can not accept your good opinion,that means he regarding the relationship between you is of less value,and it is unnecessary to feel unhappy to loss such a friend.

感觉这个题目不是很好写，大家的想法都很发散。