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110. Spend time alone or with friends?

Some people prefer to spend most of their time alone. Others like to be with friends most of the time. Do you prefer to spend your time alone or with friends? Use specific reasons to support your answer.

In this era of rapid social change leading to increase life complexity and psychological displacement, a question turns in dramatic controversy among in person that whether people should to spend most of time alone or with friends? There are main two groups are holding opposite idea. But, with all aspects of thinking, I incline to use my time with friends.

To the basic first, there is an opportunity to find some necessary information when he or she is staying with friends. It calls “complementary benefits”. For example to explain it, everyone has different background such as culture, age, major and so on, which leads to them thinking and speaking differently, as result, obtaining personal knowledge. Therefore, he or she could learn diversity of knowledge, attitudes, manner or characteristic when he or she is communicating with friends.

On the other hand, the most value time always shares with friends. In contemporary, the rapid pace of work makes heavy stresses on people. It impacts people lost in life and forgetting what is real happiness. But, there is always a way to resolve it --- to stay with friends. That is why we usually see that some people take a party together in the pub or restaurant.

Finally, the friends not only a player when he or she has spare times, but also a good teacher to each other. No one could deny that the friends have big influence on everyone in common. When he or she feels upset or confronts problem, they must find their friends at first time to have a talk for resolving the confusion. At that time, the friends become a teacher for opposite person. For instance, I feel confusion when I was preparing the TOEFL test, not because there were some hard question that I can not resolve, the patient which was lost at that period. Fortunately, my best friend gave me hand when my hard time. She not only helps my English improvement, but also boarding my horizon for relaxing, I can no exaggeration to say that she played an essential role in my future life. As result, I always gained value things when I stayed with friends.

In conclusion, I prefer to spend most time to stay with my friends and there are many well benefits for me.