issue130 孩子的社会化 留下链接,有拍必回

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130"How children are socialized today determines the destiny of society. Unfortunately, we have not yet learned how to raise children who can help bring about a better society." 留学528
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In our society, most parents and educators hope the children grow up in a good environment and make their brilliant careers in the future. As illustrated in the dictionary, socialization is a process by which people, especially children, learn acceptable and unacceptable behaviors for a given environment. Now, it is clear that socialization call for the interaction with others. I concede that we should further our socialized ways base on the existed educational methods.

First, we have explored some basic ways to educate children when they are at schools or homes. The children from traditional schools may get the basic knowledge and moral system in their lives. Most of us are cultivated the spirit of hard working and honesty in our whole lives. Even though some children fails to comply with these principles after becoming adults, the teachers and parents would not give up the chance to educate their children. For example, the children in the primary schools learn to conform to the commands of teachers. They are told that the puzzle should be finished by themselves in a short time. It is clear that no one would finish it in such a serious limitation with the adults’ help. The children obey the order of teachers fail to reach this goal but win the basic dignity, honest, which is considered the most important factor in their lives.

Further more, through the knowledge and experience learned in schools and society by themselves, children hold the way to bring a better society at some degree. Interaction is so important for all of us as each of us is a molecular of this society. And the skill of surviving in this international world should be learned in lives. What American schools effectively teach is the life skill, including logical thinking, analysis, and creative problem-solving. The actual content of class is secondary to the process, which serves the capacity of independence. The statement is illustrated by the prevail movements in many countries. The companies and governments usually organize some summer or winter camp in order to temper the children’s bodies and wills. This policy is so effective and stimulate their hope to cooperate with accompanies.

Admittedly, it is not denying that we still need to improve our methods to cultivate children grow up healthily and with creative thoughts. We should recognize the benefit originated from the policy that put children into society and interact with each other. However, there are so many factors unsafe and improper for children existed in our society. First, the terror problem, tort psychology and other unhealthy factors affect our children easily. The various mass media such as television programs, internet, and magazines and so on maintain both the unprofitable and useful information. Second, our existed educational system also remains fallacies that hinder the variety of children’s development and their creation. All these facts call for research and reforms of socialized methods.

Above all, as I state, illustrated with examples and reasons, we should search for improve of the socialized means and create the healthy environment for the children’s socialization. This by on means would strengthen the capacity of children, which bring the light of a better society.