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发表于 2009-8-27 23:38:13
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Friendship is very important for us. In our lives, we cannot live without friendship, just as we cannot survive without water and air. However, what is the real meaning of friendship? Different people have different ideas. As for as I am concerned, I firmly believe in an old proverb that a friend in need is a friend indeed. If your friend makes a mistake but you neglect them just for not destroying the friendship, I think the friendship is not a real good friendship.
First of all,it is a good way to help your friend to correct his mistake by saying or doing something, when your friend is trapped into his own world and do not have a wise understanding about himself. True friend is not for the money, for the power, for the position, but just for the person. So as a real friend, we should help our friend with a kind heart not matter what we say or do is right or wrong. Let a friend make a mistake, then he will continue to do that, if it is going on, when, someday, he wakes up and finds himself cheated by so-called "the pure friendship".In that case, how can we believe in each other, how can we still stay together to talk everything, how can we share the different ideas. So, it is unwise to let a friend make a mistake when you know what he or she has done is wrong.
Furthermore, it maybe improves the friendship to tell your friends the truth, instead of destroying. If you help your friend correct his or her mistake, he or she would show gratitude to you from the heart. By our warning, he will be aware of the danger of doing wrong. For example, I have been friends with Tony after entering the university. Although we often show different ideas and point out mutual flaws, we all know that every action or words is good for the friendship. So we still believe in each other and our friendship can stand all sorts of tests. Though there is a lot of time when we do not say any word to each other because of small conflict, after communication, we also stay together and talk happily. Therefore, it is no wonder to worry about destroying the friendship.
To sum up, if you want to enjoy a real and true friendship,do not worry to destroy it, just tell the truth when him or her makes a mistake and believe that everything will be better. After that, you will know what is real friend meaning and have more pleasure.
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