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本帖最后由 yuminjia 于 2009-12-7 16:41 编辑
12.7 Agree or disagree, in order to succeed, you should be more like others than be different from everyone else.
The heated debate pertaining that whether to be similar to other or be different from else is under way. To be distinct from other people seems not harmony at first, but it will bring us more rewarding effect than to be similar to others. Therefore, I agree with the statement that you should be different from others, the characteristic which is apt to win success.
To begin with, it is undeniable that someone who makes himself standout will gain more opportunity than others, thus leading to success. Take my experience for instance, once I attended an organization focusing on how to arrange a well-round study group. All the team members approved that we should find some volunteers to build this group. In contrast, I claimed my criticism that we should not rely volunteers to built this group, but encourage someone, who had less interesting on study, to attend. For this different suggestion, I was selected by my professor to be the chairman of this organization. Indeed, this group finally successed since I exerted an explicit plan following my perspective. I was so excited that when my plan had finally paid off, while others lost this opportunity due to their similar opinions which couldn't attract the professor's attention.
Furthermore, it is indisputable that the trait of being distinguished from others will make you more easily find your problem in a team. Take my team member's story for example. In our group discussion, she was the one who always dared to express her own ideas, which are distinct from others'. We usually spent some time to point out her mistakes in her unsound reasons. However, she would not feel shame but pleased to accept our opinion, making her gain more progress during the discussion. From my perspective, due to this distinct characteristic, she will get more beneficial experience, which is an essential ingredient for success.
Judging from the evidences I mentioned above, I absolutely agree with the opinion that you should be more different from others than be similar, since you will attain success by get more hand-on experience from this characteristics.
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