.上课听不懂

guriUID: 3513431

之前憧憬了很久的留学生活居然是这样的。上课听不懂，平时对话也不懂。小组讨论就只能干坐着，微笑，点头。
      在国内活泼外向的我，看到老外都必须打个招呼。现在连看到中国人都不想说话，平时聊qq也不想回答，就只回复个嗯。英语跟荷兰语有时在耳边各种嗡嗡的。觉得自己变得孤僻起来。不合群应该是我在外国人眼中的形象
      马上考试了，各种不会，不知道从哪里复习。开放性试题，呵呵。才来一个月上两门课。只有两天复习时间。下周一开始新的小学期。选择了一个充斥着学霸的专业，让小学渣怎么生存。
    当初各种奋斗，现在成功出来留学了。却没学习动力了。选择了很难得专业，本科没挂科，现在在这里好像要一直挂的节奏。学分不够要被遣返。压力很大，却没变成学习的动力。反而成了逃避的借口。曾经在国内见到外国人都想去聊两句，现在却把自己关在屋子里，不愿意与别人交流。我怎么了？
       这里的环境很美，我却没有时间也没心情欣赏，享受。关起宿舍门，你就是自己一个人。每天说话不到10句。其中还包括hi,thx,bye

Clark_ShuUID: 3588389

放轻松

tracysxyUID: 3590612

Give yourself some time man, believe me we all used to be the Asian geek. You can start from reading more references before discussion and try to say one or two sentences, just to let people know you are trying to get involved. These people are not better than you academically, they just benefit from a language which is more similar to their mother tongue. Try to approach someone easy-going and spend some time with him or her, and this guy is gonna be your channel to others in the class. Or you can try to make friends with Spainish, based on my experiences they are having the same language problem and most of them are easy to get alone with:D You have the courage to come to the Netherlands, and you must have put a lot of efforts to make it there, so don't make yourself so miserable. Take a short trip by train and ask if someone wanna come with you. Good luck and you will definitely be fine if you keep trying.

phoebehoUID: 3506687

摸摸头，安慰一下LZ。
相信大家出去的时候都会经历相似的事情。
给自己一点时间，忽然有一天，你就发现开始能听懂了，听懂得更多了，和身边的人熟络起来了。
tracysxy给的建议很好，可以试试做着看。加油！

gytgyt35UID: 3591804

千万不要抑郁，一抑郁那就完了。。。。

gytgyt35UID: 3591804

tracysxy 发表于 2015-3-21 17:22
Give yourself some time man, believe me we all used to be the Asian geek. You can start from reading ...

Hug Hug。。。

guriUID: 3513431

Clark_Shu 发表于 2015-03-14 08:58
放轻松

好

guriUID: 3513431

tracysxy 发表于 2015-03-21 17:22
Give yourself some time man, believe me we all used to be the Asian geek. You can start from reading more references before discussion and try to say one or two sentences, just to let people know you are trying to get involved. These people are not better than you academically, they just benefit from a language which is more similar to their mother tongue. Try to approach someone easy-going and spend some time with him or her, and this guy is gonna be your channel to others in the class. Or you can try to make friends with Spainish, based on my experiences they are having the same language problem and most of them are easy to get alone with:D You have the courage to come to the Netherlands, and you must have put a lot of efforts to make it there, so don't make yourself so miserable. Take a short trip by train and ask if someone wanna come with you. Good luck and you will definitely be fine if you keep trying.

Thx for ur suggestions.

guriUID: 3513431

phoebeho 发表于 2015-04-02 17:33
摸摸头，安慰一下LZ。
相信大家出去的时候都会经历相似的事情。
给自己一点时间，忽然有一天，你就发现开始能听懂了，听懂得更多了，和身边的人熟络起来了。
tracysxy给的建议很好，可以试试做着看。加油！

谢谢摸摸头，希望会好起来，祝你申请成功啊，如果已经在外就继续享受留学生活。其实我的问题根本原因还是在我自己身上。

guriUID: 3513431

gytgyt35 发表于 2015-04-02 17:42
千万不要抑郁，一抑郁那就完了。。。。

好，谢谢

mimifueUID: 135625

出去健健身，跑跑步，叫几个人泡泡吧。多玩儿玩儿交上朋友就好了。会好起来的，别天天闷家里。

DYH1992UID: 3630952

我也有一样的问题，不过现在我发现自己学还快一点

000UID: 111755

熬过第一二学期就好了...不是你能听懂了...就会发现怎么混了..

happyllamaUID: 3651306

Take it easy.

NCSU23UID: 3620876

虽说我还没出国，申请的是明年的秋季入学，不过个人感觉也会经历和楼主一样的问题，而且会比楼主更严重