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Are parents the best teachers?\
The most important people in our life are Parents.they gave us life and raise us as best as they could. obiviously, we are the person they are concerned about most,but it is not completely true to say that they are the best teachers in our life.
Firstly, children are rebuked by their parents for misbehavior.Punishment is a way for us to learn from our mistakes.but some punishments could cause bad effects.for example,once my cousin went to bar with her friends and cousin did not tell her mother. So ,her mother found she everywhere untill she came out from bar and met her mother. Immediately her mother hit her on where the road they met and many people went around to see what happened.it is unlucky that her boyfriend watched her and think she is a bad girl ,therefore,he broke up with her .all happens to her are tremendous hurt.i think if the way of punishment were wrong , not only did it bring us negative effects, but also be harmful to our psyche. one of reaserch shows that the hurt in child’s heart did not stop increasing untill they became to an adult that are sensitive,introverted and irascible. However, I believe that they could have taught me the same lesson in another way instead of punishing me for children
Secondly,not all parents can be the best teacher because some have bad behaviors which will affect young children unconsciously,even though they hope they can devote us their good behaviors. for example, a father,who never wash his feet, think it would infuence his son.but this habits lead his child form this habit subconsciously .nonetheless,as far as I concerned, he not merely set a passive example for his child,but he failed his obligation as a father as well.
The last but not the least,several parents’selflessness will develop into some kind of cosset. things are supposed to do by children themselves but all have been done by their parents.it is a distort way to protect children from hurt.if parents constantly provide sources like this,their children would be incapable of everything.therefore,one day the children would be eliminated through natural selection.
In sum,whether parents are best teachers which is decided by what our parents are.some parents are nice,high-educated and wisedom.there is no denying that they will be qualified as a good teacher ,because they know how to educate their children properly.however,some parents ,who never have common sense to guide children ,are not good enough to be a wonderful teacher. |
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