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This debate has got off to an excellent start: we thank our debaters and the many people who have contributed online. Now the debaters have laid out their starting propositions, the arguments are beginning to deepen, with serious questions asked about what success means and what it means to say that women have never had it so good. Terry O'Neill rightly objects to the complacency implied by "never had it so good" (which is why, of course, Harold Macmillan's phrase became notorious in the first place). This complacency implies that women should call it a day rather than continue to agitate for(鼓动) a better deal.
feminists(男女平等主义者, 女权扩张论者) rat race(卑鄙的竞争, 你死我活的竞争) Several studies also suggest that people are no happier than they used to be. The fact that women have conflicting choices—particularly over whether they should find fulfilment in motherhood or careers—is creating a great deal of angst.
【The problem with steering the debate in another direction, however much we may sympathise with(赞同) the arguments and frustrations in doing so, is that it avoids discussion of the specific motion.】Moreover, it removes the opportunity for women to take stock of their lives, to look around and to make some comparisons of then and now. If we had been invited to discuss the plight of people—not just women—in the developing world, we would have needed far more than the space allotted((按份额)分配, 分派) here. But this debate is focused on women in the developed world and the general question of whether they are better off now than they have ever been. 【As has been established, and I would not quibble with any of the evidence on women's pay, the struggle for equal pay for equal responsibilities in the workplace between men and women has a long way to run. But that is not the proposition.】 The question we are here to discuss is whether women in developed countries today are better off(境况好)
than their mothers were. I do not think that this debate is necessarily about pay and careers but about perceptions, and self-perceptions at that. What do we mean by "never had it so good"? Are women simply going to measure their progress in society by financial comparisons? Isn't that the sort of thing that men do? I thought women were smarter than that.
【The answer depends on the way an individual woman understands her role in society. An important consideration here must be self-fulfilment and, as Fay Weldon the novelist once said, men are irrelevant in women's considerations. "Women are happy or unhappy, fulfilled or unfulfilled, and it has nothing to do with men," said Weldon. That is harsh, but women must believe this of themselves if they are to reshape a better future than the conflict-strewn path of history carved by men.】 This brings us to the nub of the debate: do women have a better opportunity today to realise their potential than they did in the past? I think the answer must be a resounding "yes".
A generation ago there were few of the safeguards in the employment system that protect women today. 【Sexual discrimination laws were in their infancy and equal opportunities legislation was just beginning to make a difference.】 Today all that has changed. If there is modern discrimination against women in contemporary education it is probably directed at those who might want to raise a family at home. That option is no longer on the agenda for those in school or college. Women are educated today in order to fulfil an economic role in society. 【The traditional role of motherhood, they find, must be slotted within career breaks, then juggled in ever more complex organisational demands of combining salaried work with domestic cares.】
For all the talk of growth economies, of productivity, of richer nations enjoying greater spending power than less successful neighbours, the end game of humanity is not a fistful of dollars but about relative happiness and contentment over a lifetime. Women play a unique role in that equation, always have, always will. 【Women know it innately but my fear is that in the battle for workplace equity they could lose sight of(不再看见,忽略,忘记) some of the defining aspects of womanhood(女人,女人气质).】 【Why is the caring role—whether looking after children or the elderly—perceived by some as a raw deal(不公平的待遇)? Helping children to understand the world around them is one of the most rewarding experiences that life can offer, while sharing the twilight years of the elderly can be equally rewarding if we can rid ourselves of the shabby images of caring: brattish, screaming infants and incoherent oldies gathered round the TV. Care in the family need not be like that, but valuing everything in monetary terms has diminished humanity, importing elements of the production line to birth, life and death.】 We can all agree there are still too few women in politics, still too few in the most senior professional and management roles. But we should always take into consideration those women who do not choose this path in life. The late Mother Teresa seemed capable of finding a proper perspective that all of us with families, not just women, could adopt. She said: "Everybody today seems to be in such a terrible rush, anxious for greater developments and greater riches and so on, so that children have very little time for their parents. Parents have very little time for each other, and in the home begins the disruption of peace of the world." The women's struggle, the women's movement must carry on, but women might do themselves a service if they took stock for a moment, looked around and counted their blessings as much as their victories. It is good to celebrate now and then and women deserve to celebrate for just a moment perhaps. Tomorrow there will be more work and women should embark on(着手,从事) the rest of their journey, wherever they believe they should be heading, in the knowledge that they are second to no man. But today it is time to discover their own distinctive futures, an inclusive future for all, not the future of men. orgasms(极度兴奋, 兴奋的高潮)
cheeky(厚颜无耻的). …unladylike(不像贵妇人的) drive and ambition. Pundit Tucker Carlson, for instance, has referred multiple times to being afraid of Ms Clinton because he finds her "castrating, overbearing and scary". Ask any woman politician, including the former GOP vice-presidential candidate, Sarah Palin, and I bet she has at least one story where she saw herself portrayed through a lens that focused on her "feminine" characteristics rather than her positions or qualifications. These assessments might seem slight, but they contribute to women not being taken seriously in the workplace, in all industries and at all levels. lesbian(adj.(女性)同性恋的 n.同性恋的女性) homophobia(n.对同性恋的憎恶(或恐惧))
【In reality, women's choices are severely constrained. Is it really a choice when a woman leaves an otherwise good middle management job because of relentless harassment by men unwilling to accept female leadership? Is it really a choice when a woman drops out of the workforce because her employer won't make any accommodations for her need to care for kids or other family members?】 I can think of no better example than women's fundamental right to abortion. We are about to mark the 37th anniversary of the US Supreme Court's Roe v. Wade decision, which recognised the constitutional right to safe and legal abortion in this country. However, huge numbers of women have no reproductive choice because the government blocks their access to funding for abortion care, which is tantamount to blocking access to services altogether. Clinics and doctors who provide abortion care dwindle as anti-abortion violence and harassment drive them away. And when they continue to care for women in need despite continued threats, heroic physicians like Dr George Tiller are murdered. Additionally, women's right to abortion care is a perennial political football to be put into play during critical negotiations, such as the recent health-care reform debate in the United States. We might gain a sliver of health insurance reform, but we will surely lose a significant degree of abortion coverage in the process. What other right in the industrialised world is under such constant scrutiny, under such concerted attack, but the right to abortion? That it is a right only women can exercise should not be lost on us. Lastly, I can help Mr Donkin with the patronising question of what women want. I assure him that our pretty little heads can handle a vast array of choices. But those options must be honest ones, not Catch-22s or false promises. Women want full equality, and we want the space and time to tell you what all that entails. Oh, and we want to stop being told that we never had it so good.
Comments:
Though I am a female, as to this controversial debates and this article, Richard Donkin’s opinion and debates are more compelling to me rather than Terry O'Neill’s.
Actually, Richard Donkin’s debates which develop the position with compelling reasons and sustains a well-focused, well-organized analysis are so forceful, clear, and self-consistent, methodic, from my personal point of view, as well as analytical. What’s more, I feel that the whole debates connect the ideas logically and fluently. First, he confines very well his debates to relating to the controversial topic, then extend his rebuttal remarks in the range he has confined. Additionally, the way he analyse and demonstrate the topic is useful for me to learn while writing issue.
In contrast, Terry O'Neill’s argument seems a little limitted and radical to some extent, as to me. The example of abortion that she iterates is not so representive, compelling, in my view, even a little partial. Terry O'Neill seems to expect and argue a perfect world no sexism exists, whereas the topic is main about the comparsion of women status now in the developed world with decades years ago.
At last, I want to express my personal view on this issue. First of all, we should admit that it is no denying that the position of women have been improved gradually and the sexism is bating little by little from economic, political aspects, though sexism may still exist somewhere or sometime, and it’s not so perfect as we have expected. In the meantime, we also have to admit that in some areas or under certain circumstance, severely sexism still exist and hurt women deeply. Woman, nowadays, are facing more stress than has ever been before, both from work and family, though who may have more choices. We can see a numerous of examples around us that don’t need to deliberate.
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