题目:
Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? It is better to make friends with intellignet friends than with people who have a good sense of humor
作文:
I always hear people discussing what kind of people is the best choice when making friend. Some people who think that to get happiness is the goal of making friends asserts that humorous people is the best choice of friends. Other people, considering the purpose of learning from friends, say that to make friends with who are intelligent is better. Yet I consider that there is no need to hold such a utilitarian view when we are making friends. And I hold that any kind of people can become friends as long as they are loyal and sincere to friends.
Yes, I concede that friends are helpful, and even indispensable, in our lives. When we are in difficulties, we always need friends who are not will to, but also able give us a hand. We need friends who could bring us joy and happiness when we are in sorrow; so we want humorous people to be our friends. We need friends who could give us advices when we cannot make decisions; so we what intelligent people to be our friends.
But, this does not means that we have to make friends in such a utilitarian way. Friends are not just about giving and receiving helps; it is also about trust and responsibility. It is about a relationship of interdependent. We would lose the true understanding of friendship if we consider friends simply as someone who could provide help. A person with strong sense of humor could make you laugh, but could he be your friend when he disclose your secrete to others? Also, a well-educated person could give you wise suggestions, but would you consider him as your friends when he cheats you in business?
Thus, from my perspective, friends are people whom you can trust from within and you can share all your thoughts and feelings. Thus, whether friends are humorous or intelligent is a peripheral factor between friends. Other than those who are humorous or intelligence, I would choose those who are loyal and sincere to me.In my observation, friends are those who we are going to depend on spiritually all alone our lives, and hence there is no need to choose friend in such a utilitarian way.