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When comes to friendship, people are always hesitating on the choice of letting a friend make a mistake or doing something that may destroy the relationship(第一句很棒!). Generally speaking, people all want to correct their friends’ mistakes and still have a close friendship. In a word, people all aim to kill two birds with one stone. However, as the old saying goes, “You cannot eat a cake and have it”, most of the time if you reveal your friend’s mistake you would destroy the friendship more or less. As far as I am concerned, whether you should point out your buddy’s mistake must due to how serious the mistake is.
To begin with, people should let(let不太好吧,感觉是故意的…,allow) a friend make the mistake that is not a big deal. As we all know, failure always leads us to success, when our friend makes a certain mistake, we should let it go as it’s not that serious. For example, we may be consulted with by our friends about decisions on their work,(是不是该句号) usually they have to choose one from the alternatives. When the problem comes to this, what we can do is just giving further analysis on those options and helping our buddies to select more rational. The choice itself is not that essential because no matter it effects positively or negatively, both of us do benefit from it. I mean, our friends would learn from this experience and work better, the process also helps us to know more about each other.
On the contrary, we must correct our friends’ mistake instantly if it would lead to an irreparable result. As we are friends, we should take the responsibility to remind our buddies not to make some serious mistakes. Life is full of snares and pitfalls and no one is proof against them all, our friends cannot be exceptional. Occasionally they would be tempted and do things hazardous or even illegal. Due to their life has been mislead by the lures, it is not the time for us to be hesitate on the relationship, we must stop the doing as soon as we detect it. At that time, it would certainly destroy the friendship as we actually screw up our buddies’ “fortune”. But I can ensure you that as time goes by, the relationship would be reestablished as long as friends truly understand us.
To sum up, people all should experience failure then would cherish happiness more. So it’s acceptable to let our friends make mistakes which are innocuous. Also, people should be responsible to their friends so that they won’t do things irreparable.
很好,没什么大问题,赞
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