半夜心情很沉重

yymm09UID: 2656800

sigh 孩子要在家带十二年    你忘了有个叫托儿所幼儿园的地方么

nordea 发表于 2009-9-26 00:23

hehe....

u should go and check the kindergarden's schedule...see if it matches ur wife's working schedule..

by-law..u can't leave children under 12 yrs old alone (at home, anywhere)....so who picks up them from school? who stucks with them? who cooks for them?

12 yrs is a huge sacrifies....

but of course...u can always hire a nanny +driver+private chef....then it's ur sentence now你要培养贵族啊

nordeaUID: 2331234

hehe....

u should go and check the kindergarden's schedule...see if it matches ur wife's working schedule..

by-law..u can't leave children under 12 yrs old alone (at home, anywhere)....so wh ...
yymm09 发表于 2009-9-26 02:24

幼儿园阿姨下班你也下班吧   你还能天天加班么  我想在加拿大想找个天天加班的工作也没有

养孩子应该是个享受的过程  我想  尤其是小点的时候 比较可爱
有孩子的  好像都很愿意多点时间跟孩子在一起
叫你一说 就是sacrefice了 还12年的 谁还敢要孩子

yymm09UID: 2656800

幼儿园阿姨下班你也下班吧   你还能天天加班么  我想在加拿大想找个天天加班的工作也没有

养孩子应该是个享受的过程  我想  尤其是小点的时候 比较可爱
有孩子的  好像都很愿意多点时间跟孩子在一起
叫你一说 ...
nordea 发表于 2009-9-26 02:47

no kindergarden opens from 7am to 6pm which I work from 8am to 5pm as an accountant. I need to drop the kids and get back to work and go to pick them up after work.

If u find one kindergarden opens according to the general working schedule, please send me a link right now, because I will be so HAPPY they do.

yymm09UID: 2656800

47# nordea

of course I like kids....who doesn't...

will you give up your job to take care of the kids?

will you let your wife give up her job to take care of the kids?

will you pay 30~40% of income tax when you and your wife both working and out of the 60%~70% of your money, will you pay at least $2,000/month to hire a nanny work for you from Monday to Friday? which will cost at least $24,000/year. Also, will you be able to afford a car for yourself to go to work? and a car for your wife to go to work? and a car for the nanny to drive your kids to school? There is no school bus for kindergarden kids if you would like to know.

nordeaUID: 2331234

no kindergarden opens from 7am to 6pm which I work from 8am to 5pm as an accountant. I need to drop the kids and get back to work and go to pick them up after work.

If u find one kindergarden o ...
yymm09 发表于 2009-9-26 03:35

那这么说
能送孩子去幼儿园的, 都是下午4点就下班的人
5点下班的人, 就只有辞职在家带孩子的option了,  幼儿园是拒收的
那些有0-12岁孩子的家庭, 都是一方在家专职带孩子
那些家里有几个孩子的  每隔几年出生一个  那当妈妈的是不可能去工作了

yymm09UID: 2656800

幼儿园阿姨下班你也下班吧   你还能天天加班么  我想在加拿大想找个天天加班的工作也没有

养孩子应该是个享受的过程  我想  尤其是小点的时候 比较可爱
有孩子的  好像都很愿意多点时间跟孩子在一起
叫你一说 ...
nordea 发表于 2009-9-26 02:47

well, sorry....I DO have a job requires me to work over time now. And it pays me about $40,000/yr on part-time+over time working basis.

I have 4 courses every semester go to school 4 days a week. work 12hrs/day for 3 days.

It costs me $10,000 for tuition and boosk, $15,000/yr for every day living expenses. And I'm trying to save money so that my parents could live a easy life after I get married.....

I think you missed my point and focuse on how a bad mom I will be.

It's just the reality makes me worried. If you can afford a housewife, then go ahead. I wish you good luck and a happy life.

yymm09UID: 2656800

那这么说
能送孩子去幼儿园的, 都是下午4点就下班的人
5点下班的人, 就只有辞职在家带孩子的option了,  幼儿园是拒收的
那些有0-12岁孩子的家庭, 都是一方在家专职带孩子
那些家里有几个孩子的  每隔几年出生一 ...
nordea 发表于 2009-9-26 03:48

yeah, about 50% r housewifes, 30% work as part time workers.

For example, girls work in the administration office on a part-time basis, or go shift. Or receptionists.

but by the way....Do SEND ME the LINK of the kind of kindergarden you can find.

I will be MUCH LESS WORRIED....

srorangeUID: 2394002

yeah, about 50% r housewifes, 30% work as part time workers.

For example, girls work in the administration office on a part-time basis, or go shift. Or receptionists.

but by the way....Do SE ...
yymm09 发表于 2009-9-26 03:51

zan party-time work. Family is the priority.

no family, no job.......

水狐狸UID: 2283710

i wanna apply for the nanny position

sacredno1UID: 208290

现在经济形势，超级难找工作

nordeaUID: 2331234

my point is
dont be scared by baby raising
nothing regarding your quality as a mom
I am sorry i didn't make this clear

我一老爷们真不好意思跟你在这问题上深入探讨
我错了
谢谢

水狐狸UID: 2283710

my point is
dont be scared by baby raising
nothing regarding your quality as a mom
I am sorry i didn't make this clear

我一老爷们真不好意思跟你在这问题上深入探讨
我错了
谢谢
nordea 发表于 2009-9-26 04:11

r u married

nordeaUID: 2331234

r u married
水狐狸 发表于 2009-9-26 04:12

hehe  i wish

水狐狸UID: 2283710

bucuo

AmerigoUID: 2140122

想得好远。。。