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Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? It is better to make friends with intelligent people than with people who have a good sense of humor.
While some people advocate that they prefer to make friends with intelligent people, I, personally prefer to have a friend with a good sense of humor, because a humor friend could bring us much more tremendous happiness to our tedious life than the intelligent one.
First and foremost, in the increasingly pressure modern society, having a friend who has a good sense of humor could significantly help us to release the stress. Because the humor is remarkable effective in managing stress and maintain mental health. For example, when we feel depression and tired, a humor friend bring us laugh which could help us resulting in lower bloods pressure and lower pulsing rate, eventually bringing out the relaxation response and calmness. In contrast, if we have a friend who is intelligent and lack humor, stress will not be released, instead, surely will be aggravated. Since when people had an intelligent or capacity person around them, competition consciousness could inevitably be stimulated, which led the mental pressure arouses. Therefore, indeed, it is better to make friends with the humorousness, due to people deserve their life filling with laugh, happiness rather than stress.
In addition, a friend who has a good sense of humor is much easier to communicate with than the intelligent one. It is true that people may feel free when they face to a humor person. Why does this happen? First of all, since we know humor is like the lubricant of any communication, especially when people have a conflict, it could help people take off “alert statues”, calm their central nervous and minimize the misunderstanding. Secondly, when people talk a humor friend, his humorous feedback may encourage them overcome some communication problems such as poor voice production and nervousness. Finally, as people’s timidity is deceasing, self-confidence will be gradually achieved which eventually brings out the successful interaction. In contrary, some intelligent friends may be used to be proud of themselves on account of their talent, thus they may always overlook others’ opinion and trigger other’s timidity as much as antipathy. In conclusion, making a humor friend is much better than having an intelligent friend.
However, the advantage of making friends with an intelligent person could not be left out, although getting a humor one gives people considerable benefits. For example, if people have accidental problems, they would like to have the intelligent friends who can provide the advisable suggestions to solve trouble which barely the one only having humor can do.
In sum, it is undoubtedly that making friends with the humorous people is much better than the intelligent ones, when the relaxation and easier communication are taken into consideration. Nevertheless, needless to say, we always want to own a humorous friend who is also intelligent, kind and helpful. |
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