balloon1113的作文贴(8.4)

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8月4日
1.      topic：People with different interests and personalities cannot be friends?
It is always thought that when we develop a friendship with someone who have in common with us. However, people share no common in interests and personalities cannot be friends? i do not think so. There are elements which values more in a friendship and make friend with someone who have some different from you may, in some degree, bring you some bonus.

Initially, when one chooses somebody to be a friend, he/she regards personal quality more crucial other than similar interests or personalities. Typically, people need a friend to share their happiness, sorrow and secrets. All of us will not hope, undoubtly, stay with a negative person, whom even bring us get into a blue feeling. we also refuse a friend who is not ready to share your sorrow or even hide from us when we need to talk with him/her about our suffering. Even, we cannot tolerate make friend with one that let out my secrets go into others ears soon after i told him/her. Hence, a friend with quality of humor, patience and honest is the basic and primitive standards for us to choose friends.

Besides, make friends with different style of people could cause a complementary effect. we communicate with each other very often, although we have different interests, it is inevitable for us to mention words about our interests in the conversation. Or, sometimes, we may bring our friends join each other’s activities. So we can get to know a new realm of life, or even became interested in it too. Besides, there must be fewer quarrels between us for we have different personalities. When we meet diverge, a quarrel is less likely to occur between the personalities of ill-tempered and tolerant than two ill-tempered people. Both of above make us explore the new fields of life and make our friendship in harmony.

Moreover, make friends with variety kinds of people fit in with the trends of nowadays’ society. Friend is really a very important resource in today’s society. When we apply for a job we need a good recommendation from friends, when we face a improvement we need friends’ support. To achieve a success career we should learn to relate well with people around us.

All in all, admittedly, it sounds like that people have something in common are more likely to get close to each other. However, we should not merely choose friends for whether we share the similar interests and personalities. We should be encouraged to make friends with different kinds of people.

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