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发表于 2012-4-17 23:34:35
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Parents should allow their children to make mistakes and let them learn from their own mistakes.
Whether should parents allow their children to make mistakes and let them learn from their own mistakes? Obviously, some people support this point of view, which may ignore many practical problems. While, I can not totally agree with it for the following reasons that if parents allow their children to make mistakes, their children will always fail to do things, and maybe not try their best. However, it’s is true that children would take a lesson when they fail, and pay attention to it, so that they could do better next time. But this is not necessary to exclude the justification of building up confidence since they always succeed. What’s more when children often fail, they would lose heart.
Certainly, we should admit that trials and errors can be the greatest lessons. Children would learn from the mistakes, and then to be more mature and more independent, which means they would learn how to deal with their own things rather than making decisions with the support and guidance of their parents. If we encourage child’s independence, we’ll see a confident self-image shine through. What’s more, these experiences will leave a lasting impression on children and they will learn to consistently make a decision and avoid making the same mistakes. Plus, parents should not over-react to children’s mistakes, contrarily, they could try to be tolerant and face the problems with children. In addition, this is the best way to develop children’s creativity. If parents do all the things for children, or protect their children from everything from bumps and bruises, how could children realize their own thoughts?
However, on the contrary, large amount of people fail to consider that why not to avoid making mistakes by a considerable preparation and organization. This doesn’t mean that parents help to sweep away the obstacle, but a strict requirement that is beneficial to children. Before making decisions, a good preparation could reduce the probability of making mistakes, it also a good habit. When we consider the chance, we should be aware that, there would be no another chance or next time, after they lose the very one. That means we should regard each time as the last chance, and treasure it. Plus, mistakes sometimes will make people afraid or lose confidence.
In sum, if we want children to develop well, we have to allow children learn from mistakes rather than allowing them to make mistakes without good preparation. |
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