TOPIC:Do you agree or disagree with the following statement?
Always telling the truth is the most important consideration in any relationship.
Nowadays, many people prefer be honest because it plays an important role in our daily life. Generally its advantage can be seen as follows. On the one hand, we need to lie so that we can protect someone. On the other hand, it can protect our pride from critic. So in my opinion, I don't agree that telling the truth is the most important consideration in any relationship
To begin with, we want to protect our friends or family by cheating them. Therefore, maybe we get closer by this way after we understand our friends or family's purpose.
When I was in the hospital as a houseman, there was an old-man got lung cancer. His son did not want his father to know it so entreated us to keep the secret. To make us appreciate, his father had known it and asked us not to tell his son as well. Though they cheated each other they cared about each other so much. The lie makes their relationship stronger instead of hurting anyone.
Also, it's a good way to encourage people by avoiding the truth which may be cut down their confident. Many people fell desperate just because heard prejudice from the person who don't knows them . As a friend or parents, we should encourage them rather than tell them the truth even critic them. For instance, a mother was told that her daughter was terrible by the teacher ever time. Contrarily, she told her daughter she was good all the time. Than, her child studied harder and got up earlier. Finally, her daughter became the best and went to the Yale successfully. The lie protects the little girl's confident perfectly instead of destroying their relationship.
There are many important factors in some relationships, such as love, respect, believe and so on. If we don't believe someone, every word they say is sham.
Of course, we can not have a habit of cheating. In fact, if we deceive somebody who just is the one really believe us. Unfortunately, it's the lie that more and more people keep clear of us.
All in all, telling the truth is not the most important consideration in any relationship. Sometimes it's means we care about someone so much and it can keep away from the unnecessarily comment which hurt our pride. So I do not agree the point that telling the truth is not the most important consideration in any relationship.