为了忘却的纪念 --- 直播我在港大是怎样把导师给炒了的

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393418903 发表于 2014-7-7 14:25
一个奇葩老板，其实我感觉他是在hold住LZ

是的，但方向错了，好比对吃软不吃硬的人来硬的一样。

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月夜之果 发表于 2014-7-7 16:13
楼主的主页是自己建的吗？

是的，域名也是自己买的，站是自己建的。

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ygc 发表于 2014-7-7 21:26
本来还可以分享港大换supervisor转faculty等一些细节，也可以给后来人参考。

你们这样人肉，叫我如何继续 ...

本来楼主就可以对于文中涉及个人信息的地方用其他代号替代的...:mad:

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asdf32151 发表于 2014-7-7 16:11
http://www.biosch.hku.hk/staff/jz/jz.html

是这个奇葩吗？

不用您把老师的信息贴在这里吧，想知道是哪个老师的自然可以自己动手搜索，你这样子让LZ很为难啊，赶紧删帖吧

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本是民主地，非为一言堂，
该人肉的人肉，若清炒的清炒，
青烟呛得人流涕，寥语换得万生亮，
学术归学术，人品仍人品，善哉善哉！

ygcUID: 2396629

贴个Z发的lab policy邮件吧。

Dear all,



I realize that I may have given you confusing signals, such as time spent at lab, progress report etc.

I have to admit that it is hard for me to phrase my words in response to your request for exemption. I may give you wrong signals at that moment. Yes, to emphasize that your significant work is more important, I may say “the total time spent at lab is flexible”.  How flexible?



Here is the clarification for these issues:

1.       Weekly lab meeting with reasonable progress is a mandatory for everyone, only extreme scenarios  can be exempted. Finish the assignment I mentioned if any.

2.       Daily chat for your project progress is essential. I am not asking you to come lab before 9AM, but your presence at lab will be noticed, particularly before your first significant paper (IF>8, note: small papers not counted as they are not strong enough to justify).

I am not asking you to work at here from 10AM to 1AM, like what I did. But I do consider this factor when I write your bi-annual report to graduate school.



Thanks.

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ygc 发表于 2014-7-8 19:42
贴个Z发的lab policy邮件吧。

Dear all,

雞品

ygcUID: 2396629

3月份，我母亲病重，我请假回家，我完成了系主任的数据，再加上写了ChIPSeeker, http://ygc.name/2014/04/13/chipseeker-for-chip-peak-annotation/ 我拿出了这两个东西出来讲，完了小心翼翼地跟Z说，我妈妈病情很严重，我得回家。那晚是周四，他同意了，但要求我周二回去。每周二都要汇报，不是什么大事。

我周五回了家，周一给他发短信说，病情还没稳定，我没法回学校，他说不行，我得去讲讲Progress，我说医院都开了张高危通知单了，实在没法回去。他回了一句“OK then, with only one exception".

这得有多么不情愿！我总共回家一周，回学校后，同学告诉我Z问过他们我回去了没。

对于这句”with only one exception“，我属于后知后觉，我觉得，起码我请假他同意了，没有多想。

回学校后不久，我要去新界kadoorie institute上一个graduate school的课，集中上4天，从早上7点到晚上7点，在新界很偏的一个山上。不允许出来，封闭上课。

选课时告诉他，他是同意的，上课前告诉他，他说可以，但我必须保持进度，他要check我。

然后在我去上课的第二天，就有了这一封lab policy，后面还有好几封，title写着urgent，要我晚上回学校，for daily chat，开什么国际玩笑，解放军的军营就在旁边，非常偏的地方，根本回不去。


Dear all,



I realize that I may have given you confusing signals, such as time spent at lab, progress report etc.

I have to admit that it is hard for me to phrase my words in response to your request for exemption. I may give you wrong signals at that moment. Yes, to emphasize that your significant work is more important, I may say “the total time spent at lab is flexible”.  How flexible?



Here is the clarification for these issues:

1.       Weekly lab meeting with reasonable progress is a mandatory for everyone, only extreme scenarios  can be exempted. Finish the assignment I mentioned if any.

2.       Daily chat for your project progress is essential. I am not asking you to come lab before 9AM, but your presence at lab will be noticed, particularly before your first significant paper (IF>8, note: small papers not counted as they are not strong enough to justify).

I am not asking you to work at here from 10AM to 1AM, like what I did. But I do consider this factor when I write your bi-annual report to graduate school.



Thanks.

ygcUID: 2396629

显然上课并不是件什么大不了的事情，而是刚好有个借口，本来也是要施压的。

这一封信，让之前的with only one exception格外显眼，在我脑海中，挥之不去。在实验室里也是各种施压，我知道这唯一的例外，TM是真的。

ygcUID: 2396629

后知后觉的我，内心开始有了变化，我开始烦Z了，我开始比较容易烦燥，我开始对自己做的东西没什么热情。

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想问一下楼主，你怕有人向他打小报告给他看你这个帖子吗？

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sunhoo 发表于 2014-7-8 21:34
想问一下楼主，你怕有人向他打小报告给他看你这个帖子吗？

我找过cedars寻求帮助，cedars的人告诉我，不是导师想炒学生就可以炒的，至少不能无缘无故，我是可以defense的，基于这些事情，我甚至可以告他。这是cedars的人告诉我的。

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ygc 发表于 2014-7-8 21:58
我找过cedars寻求帮助，cedars的人告诉我，不是导师想炒学生就可以炒的，至少不能无缘无故，我是可以defe ...

有新的进展吗？

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But I do consider this factor when I write your bi-annual report to graduate school.

这傻逼

missleiUID: 3530623

LZ辛苦了,好曲折,持续关注.
正在找老师,也碰到奇葩的,看看长长经验