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Dear Prof. XXX:

It is really my pleasure to learn that I have been offered admission to
the Graduate Program of xxx at the University of California, Berkeley. Whil
e unfortunately, I have accepted the offer of admission from Stanford Univer
sity at an earlier time. So, I am sorry to say that I have to decline the of
fer of admission from Berkeley with deep regret.
I know it may come as a disappointment to you, but it is really hard fo
r me to make a decision between these top universities. Department of XXX at
Berkeley is widely recognized as one of the most diverse and active departm
ent in the world, and I am very sorry to decline the chance to study here.
Please accept my deep appreciation for your generosity.
Sincerely yours,
XXX

已有的事,后必再有。  
已行的事,后必再行。  
日光之下,并无新事。  
岂有一件事,人能指着说,"这是新的"。  
哪知,在我们以前的世代,早已有了。
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发表于 2003-3-19 04:05:17 |只看该作者
发信人: bengbeng (阳光☆微笑), 信区: AdvancedEdu      
标  题: Re: 怎样写才会更委婉?
发信站: BBS 水木清华站 (Fri Mar 24 20:03:03 2000)

告诉他们你对他们的program非常感兴趣,但一些别的因素(你选的学校
有,他们学校无)使你无法割舍,你也很痛苦,矛盾,但终于还是放弃了
他们的program。你感到遗憾,并非常感谢他们的kindness和sincere help,
你希望能有机会将来以某种方式与他们合作。

其实只要你真诚,你选择的学校远优于他们的,他们通常会非常理解的。
他们不会输不起的。另外,如果你迟早要锯他们,还是早下手好,这样
他们还可以抢到别的好学生,对他们和我们的同学都好。 hope it helps.

【 在 Espanol (我学过西班牙语,但我只会说一点。) 的大作中提到: 】
: 有个烂校的小米和教受对我都特好, 可我不想去,有很不好意思直言。所以到现在还没
: 句掉它。我应该怎么写这封信?
UA
我说人生哪,如果赏过一回痛哭淋漓的风景,写一篇杜鹃啼血的文章,与一个赏心悦目的人错肩,也就够了。不要收藏美、钤印美,让美随风而逝。生命最清醉的时候,是将万里长江视为一匹白绢,裂帛。(简桢)

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发信人: leader (一只小虎), 信区: AdvancedEdu      
标  题: 拿到全奖的伙计不得不看@_^
发信站: BBS 水木清华站 (Tue Feb 22 11:43:53 2000)


some guys in China feel it not easy to say No to professors, but in
fact it is definitely polite and respected. Professors usually will
count on an incoming student even if there's no response. At least, I
know a professor in UCSB got really mad about a Tsinghua student who
didn't response for a RA last year and never came.
Please tell your fellow "lucky bird", don't be too crazy about the
success. Your success comes from the early alumini's good reputation
here. Offending professors by not respecting their FA will greatly
impact this reputation, and further influence the upcoming
applicants.
I am serious about this because I know this happens a lot among
Tsinghua students. So please help me write something on BBS. I really
want some people to pay attention to this issue.
--
从前现在过去便不再来
红红落页ぢ癯就聊
开始终结总是没变改

边的你飘荡白云外
                                 

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我说人生哪,如果赏过一回痛哭淋漓的风景,写一篇杜鹃啼血的文章,与一个赏心悦目的人错肩,也就够了。不要收藏美、钤印美,让美随风而逝。生命最清醉的时候,是将万里长江视为一匹白绢,裂帛。(简桢)

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发信人: abc (net), 信区: Goabroad
标  题: 拒绝全奖范例(一))
发信站: 空间科学BBS站 (Fri Mar 28 15:06:16 1997)


Dear Prof. ***:

Thank you for your letter of Feb.28, in which you grant admission and
financial aid to me. I am sprry to inform you that I must decline your
gracious offer because, before receiving your letter, I had accepted a
similar offer of admission and financlal aid from another institution.

For this position, I can recommend Mr.*** who has applied to your deparnment.
In terms of scholastic capacity and work ability, he is also a strong
applicant. He, however, has not received notification of admission or
financial aid. I believe he will be delighted to accept your offer.

Please accept my deep appreciation for your very kind assistance to my
application.

Sincerely yours,
***


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※ 来源:·BBS 水木清华站 bbs.net.tsinghua.edu.cn·[FROM: 166.111.17.225]



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我说人生哪,如果赏过一回痛哭淋漓的风景,写一篇杜鹃啼血的文章,与一个赏心悦目的人错肩,也就够了。不要收藏美、钤印美,让美随风而逝。生命最清醉的时候,是将万里长江视为一匹白绢,裂帛。(简桢)

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发信人: kingchurch (老人与海~沙漠海), 信区: AdvancedEdu
标  题: Deline letter 1
发信站: BBS 水木清华站 (Tue Mar 31 23:58:08 1998)

Dear Sir/Madam:
    In cooperation with my advisor and classmates, I have completed
a review of your offer for admission to graduate study at the
University of XXXX.
   I have carefully considered all of your admission materials,
and unfortunately your admission has not been accepted. Because
the resources provided by your offer is not sufficient to
accommodate the total demand for my graduate education, not
all of those who give me an offer can be accepted. There are
a great many excellent offers of admission & financial aids
come to me, and therefore the final decision was very difficult.
   
    I sincerely regret that I am unable to accept your admission,
and hope that my decision will not dicourage you from offering
further academic education or professional development to
other students. Please accept my best wishes for success in
your future endeavors.

Sincerely yours,

Kingchurch
UA
我说人生哪,如果赏过一回痛哭淋漓的风景,写一篇杜鹃啼血的文章,与一个赏心悦目的人错肩,也就够了。不要收藏美、钤印美,让美随风而逝。生命最清醉的时候,是将万里长江视为一匹白绢,裂帛。(简桢)

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发信人: kingchurch (老人与海~沙漠海), 信区: AdvancedEdu
标  题: decline letter 2
发信站: BBS 水木清华站 (Wed Apr  1 00:07:05 1998)

Dear Mr. John:
    Your offer letter and supporting documents have been carefully
read by me. My policy of limited acceptance and the number of
very qualified offers for admission with financial aid make
it impossible for me to accept admission to more than a
small proportion of the universities who admit me. I am sorry
to report that you are among those whom I am unable to
accept. I do hope very much that you will able to adopt another
brilliant graduate student!
    Thank you for giving me the opportunity to consider your
offer of admission and financial assistance.

Sincerely yours,

Kingchurch
UA
我说人生哪,如果赏过一回痛哭淋漓的风景,写一篇杜鹃啼血的文章,与一个赏心悦目的人错肩,也就够了。不要收藏美、钤印美,让美随风而逝。生命最清醉的时候,是将万里长江视为一匹白绢,裂帛。(简桢)

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好搞笑的据offer信!

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withdraw & decline 模版 (zz)

发信人: pettybaby (无语中...), 信区: AdvancedEdu
标  题: withdraw & decline 模版 (zz)
发信站: 水木社区 (Thu Mar 23 01:03:02 2006), 站内

发信人: mossad (康夫), 信区: WayAbroad
标  题: Withdraw/Decline模板(zz)
发信站: 兵马俑BBS (Sat Mar 11 12:47:46 2006), 本站(202.117.1.8)

肯定不去的尽早withdraw/decline吧,造福别人,让外国人眼里中国人留个好印象.这
里贴两个模板,一个是wishy@smth发在水母的,一个是我收到的IBM的,基于版权隐私权
问题,大家在这里看看吧,别出版.其实口气和格式都是差不多的.

之一:
Dear **,

Thank you very much for your admission and I consider it as my great honor
that your department can give me the chance to study there. However, I'm
very sorry that I could not join your group this fall. I have almost decided
to accept the offer from **, and I decided to decline your gracious offer


I have sent an email to withdraw my application in ** in Feb. 2 to the department(**@***). I'm afraid that maybe I did not sent it to the right email address
. I am very sorry that it takes up your precious time and effort in evaluating
my application in this case. I am confident that your department will be
very successful in recruiting new students. Also, I hope that you could
give favorable considerations to other Chinese applicants, especially those
from Tsinghua University.

I sincerely hope this will not cause too much inconvenience to you. Again
, thanks a lot for your help.

Best Regards,

wishy

之二:
Dear Mr/Miss,

Thank you for attending our interview, giving us the opportunity to discuss
with you about your qualifications and interests. I am sorry that we do
not have a suitable opening for you for the time being. If a suitable opportunity becomes available in the future, you will be contacted as soon as possible.

Please understand that this decision reflects the status of our very limited
and specialized employment needs in China rather than any negative evaluation
of your qualifications.

I wish you every success with your future plans.

IBM China Research Lab

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UP
Try to get what I want,fighting!

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恩谢谢小蝴蝶拉~

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呵呵,好帖是好帖,就怕俺用不上
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I--/ I took the one less traveled by, / And that has made all the difference.
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谢谢LZ分享
想问问,如果AD不要还用decline吗
what?

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