做最强的自己，与子征战兮路漫长

zhangheng1020UID: 2130513

In modern psychology theory... there is a base line for the counselor.

First, you have to remember that no one is superman, no one is god. We are willing to help, based on our heart. Sometimes, it works. But even the results is bad, we are still ourselves. We are not god.

Second, remember, even a slightly help from outside can make an unbelievable changes on one person. So, never be heisted to help, to love.

Last, things that one should always keep in mind is, “one is the most helper of one’s own”. So, when you help, you help a person to find his own way of life again. You won’t be his god or master leader. The best result we want to see is: help one “stand up” by ones own. Not we “support” one to “stand up”.

See?

the "xiao yan" as well as her husband may all suffer sever psychological disorder. I am not sure if her husband has other problems without depression. But after emergency aids, he will need counseling and chemical therapy. xiaoyan also need a carefully questionnaire check. She has the typical “custom helpless” behavior. So the depression diagnosis is almost there. Besides that, I wonder if this couple have some sores of personality disorder…
sigh~~

[ 本帖最后由 zhangheng1020 于 2007-8-20 09:15 编辑 ]

zhangheng1020UID: 2130513

go on! I must keep my word! goana to finish chapter 4 today!
:mad :mad :mad

zhangheng1020UID: 2130513

infiltrate
n.（名词）
One that infiltrates, especially an abnormal substance that accumulates gradually in cells or body tissues.

Pig..Crity..piGUID: 2357138

汗||| 真是魔鬼

Pig..Crity..piGUID: 2357138

佩服你可以坚持的下去！~

moondy74178945UID: 2231844

u know what, I think I should follow u, since this post I will write in English as much as I can~Fighting!;d:

guesswhatUID: 2231211

We can do it

zhangheng1020UID: 2130513

:hug::hug:
i fall aslept on the table last night :mad::mad::mad:
I will catch up the schedule today :L:L

speaklessUID: 2205899

Oh my god....Is the beginning of foreign life always in a hurry and under tremendous stress?

chennaianUID: 2332916

hao

guesswhatUID: 2231211

Nope, life here is more terrible.

zhangheng1020UID: 2130513

原帖由 guesswhat 于 2007-8-20 06:26 发表
Nope, life here is more terrible.

but with the friends around, it can be enjoyable too:loveliness: :loveliness:

zhangheng1020UID: 2130513

finished my runing, breakfast, shower...
Now in library~~

moondy74178945UID: 2231844

we will have friends here. the one thing that need to remember is we have such those close friends because we undergo a lot. so just be patient~!

moondy74178945UID: 2231844

will u have class on the morning?