comeon 小组 -- ly8768 11月7号作业

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When faced with problems, people usually appeal to friends for help. Nevertheless, here comes to a question whether advice from the older friends is more valuable or that from the friends with the same age. As far as I am concerned, I would prefer to call for help from the older friends and my reasons are as follows.

First of all, as we know, older friends have more experiences of both career and life compared with younger friends. Their experiences would be a great help to our problems because what they have experienced could be similar with what we suffer now. In this manner, the advantages of their advices based on experiences are manifest. Just as judges of U.S. refer to precedent cases to make a judgment, we can enjoy the benefits from the precedent experiences. Virtually, hardly could anyone deny the role that experiences play in solving problems. Moreover, since older friends experienced more, they would give suggestions taking more aspects into account. Therefore, I am convinced that advices from older friends are more practical and effective.

Another reason why I prefer to advices from older friends is that since they are older than us, they usually spend more time and energy on one specialized area. As a result, these older friends would have a more insightful perspective that leads to promising advices. It has been long to know for us that, students would like to choose older professor as mentors; patients are fond of aged doctors when seeing a doctor; These phenomenon indicate the fact that in most cases older people are more professional in their devoted realm because of the longer time they spend on this area. According to the analysis above, there are sufficient reasons for us to call for advices from older friends when we faced with problems.

Admittedly, friends with the same age are easy to get along with; yet it is unacceptable to make conclusion that older friends are alienated. Friends rely on trust, common interests, not only bases on ages. It is well known that parents and children can become good friends because parents trust their children; students could make friends with their teachers for they have the same interest. Accordingly, there is no evidence to verify that ages would be the barrier for people to be good friends.

In sum, since the insightful perspective of older friends as well as their massive experiences, I would prefer advices from older friends.

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