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One’s appearance is the first impression to other persons. According to the speaker, the way by which people look, address, behavior reflects personal attitude and interests as well as a society’s ideas and values. I agree with this statement but preserve my view. In other ways the appearance can not tell a true story about individual characters.
The way people look, address and behavior inform us the aspects of individual attitude and interest. Other than the purpose of keeping warm and covering body, the equally important purpose is to demonstrate of personal attitude towards vocation. A person with suit might make us believe him to work in a solemn environment, such as those involving business negotiation and giving lecture in public. While a person wearing casual cloth is inclined to work in a company which requires massive imagination and innovation likes an advertisement company or a software company. Moreover, the speech and behavior can also be an indicator of personal nature. How to deal with a conflict, for instance, tells us individual idea. The one, who use the method of compromising and joking to handle the conflict, is more likely to process excellence communicating skill. While one presents difficulty in dealing with human relationship if one shows aggressive and confrontational appearance in the face of conflict.
The appearance can also play a vital role in demonstration of social ideas and values. People use dressing to identify themselves. Arab women, who is surbordinate in national culture, are required to wear headcloth when go out. The romantic France people often wear leisure cloth. When it comes to dietary habits, pork is forbidden to eat in Islamic culture. In the manner of speech, Indian prefer to talk to their friends closely while English tend to keep a distance while talking. Expect for the different appearance between the people of different country, the appearance can also indicate the significant culture change in one country. One of the paradigmatic examples is the appearance change in China after “Reform and Open” policy. Before “Reform and Open” policy, Chinese could only allowed to wear Chinese tunic suit, nevertheless Chinese have more choices on cloth due to the mind emancipation brought by “Reform and Open” policy.
Nevertheless, sometimes the appearance is deceiving. Common sense tells us that famous people usually have proper wear and behavior. But this is not true, otherwise, how could one explain that Einstein, the discover of theory of relatively, appears with long whit hair and old clothes, and LongpinYuan, the father of hybrid rice, is dressed in a simple and cheap suit, which cost only fifteen yuan? Also, one often link a rich person with elegant and gorgeous. However, we are slowing coming to learn that a myriad of magnate likes simple and plain dressing. In a word, we can not evaluate a person only through one’s appearance.
To sum up, admittedly, appearance instructs us to be aware of both personal characters and national distinctive values. However, just as the saying goes “Beauty is not skin deep”, not appearance is always the correct method to judge of individual state and idea. |
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