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Letting others make decisions for you or making decisions by yourself? A variety answers will be given by different people, as for me, I prefer to make decisions by myself and in my opinion, most people make decisions by themselves.+A5t7i%`$z+W Qm d
One compelling reason to support my point is that most people understand their own self这个地方我可能要用themselvesbetter than anyone else, such as what kind of life do they want to live, a fast-paced life or a leisure one, or where do they prefer to live in, a big city or small town. Therefore the decisions that they make by themselves are the best ones in most cases. For instance, one of my friends got a stable, well-paid job in our hometown, a small town in northeast China. Most of her friends and relatives thought it was a good job and quite suit her. However she quitted the job only a half year later and applied for master's course in a famous university in a foreign country because she knew herself我也不晓得反身代词是否可以做从句主语好象没有见到如果你查到可否留言给我?does not like a stable job in a small town when she is young and has the ability to chase her dream, she wants to go abroad to broaden her horizon. In sum, most people know themselves better than others, they know their characteristics and what are/is the right decisions for themselves.
An additional reason is that sometimes others cannot make decisions for you. For example, who is the one that you want to marry and live with in the rest of your life? Or the attitudes toward life: what will you do if you encounter a failure, try it again or give up? Which kind of attitude in the face of serious diseases do you choose, a positive one or a negative one? How do you handle depression, fighting to get out of it or surrendering to it? As you can see, all these issues cannot be decided by others, people have to make decisions personally.
In conclusion, I agree that most people should make decisions by themselves for their sake and sometimes have to do that because nobody can 好象没有看到过这样的用法,知道你的意思不过有点中国味,我可能会说no one can understand others’ lives except him/her live your life instead of you. 我觉得LZ写了很清晰,结构也很容易理解。也没有不明白的怪句子。改的不好请多关照! |