Recently, there is a topic discussed by many people about whether parents should control children what they will do in the future or allow them to determine by themselves. Some people assert that parents have the ability and responsibility to help decide children’s future for the reason that they have more social experience and they can get to know their children well. While, as to me, parents should give children more space to decide their future because of following several reasons.
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First of all, children can become more confident and interested in things which are chosen by themselves. The measure of encouraging children to do what they have interest in (are interested in更好吧,或者把in放在前面) can stimulate their confidence and interest. As we know, interest is the best teacher, which can lead to success someday with amount of effort. In other words, interest is the key heading success(啥意思?). For instance, almost everyone in the society has heard of or is taking advantage of Microsoft, a company providing convenient and useful software for almost 90% costumers all over the world, whose CEO, Bill Gates, is the riches (richest) person in the world. (这句话的从句套太多了,前面还在修饰Microsoft,后面就修饰Bill Gates了.建议把这个句子拆一下。)But unexpected, Bill Gates would have to be a lawyer as his parents expected when he was a child, and if so, a talented scientist would disappear and people have to enjoy the service after a couple of years. And there are also many successful people like Bill Gates choosing their own way against their parents, but later they all gain sweet fruit from different aspects.
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Secondly, children have the tendency to behavior oppositely to their parents especially when they face pressure. Easily to be understood, this phenomenon comes from a sense of resistance and self-cognition of children, which shows strong desire to become independent by breaking parents’ tight yoke. In this way, children may disagree with every advise brought out by parents no matter whether the advise is advanced or not, unfortunately leading to large numbers of extra mistakes. To solve this problem, parents should give children the right to choose what they really want to make them feel respect and confident, so that, the number of mistakes can be reduced.% n- s" o& (感觉最后两句语法有点问题,但是不知道哪儿有问题)
In sums, parents should protect and encourage children’s interest and make them feel respected in order to make more concentrate on what they want to achieve and make more efforts. If children have enough space to show their talent, they will cherish each chance to make progress and become a valuable person to the society.
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