另外一个练习口语的方法就是,不管是写作还是口语的例子,我们都可以先练习题目再对比,或者用自己的话复述例子。可以从中学到好的表达,也可以对比自己的差距,甚至还可以改善范文的语言,或者联想其他同样好的表达。反正就是多开口,多查词典,多学习好的表达,多练习多练习多练习。还可以像口语课的老师一样,随意问自己一些问题,然后自问自答。you just need the brain storming in practice.反正考完驾照后,我可以先练习熟练自己的口语和口语词汇表达句式还有俚语,再继续。否则和我有些出国留学的学生一样,出了国还是听不懂说不好,回来找工作被人怀疑口语听力能力,出去了也是纠结。
今天看到一个留学贴,讲的是中国学生交流时直接说I want...没什么礼貌,不像印度同学懂得先和老师或者同事寒暄一会儿再办事情。正好看到段子手总统候选人Trump也说工行的人说话直接一句话就把租金交了,不像美国人先聊天气。我很好奇究竟怎么聊天,就问外教在国外办事要怎么聊天。外教说其实赶着办事情时候客气点,说Excuse me, Do you mind...Can you help me..之间,多用疑问句。如果说话时不舒服挠头顶眼镜啥的,可以说Excuse me,这样你忽然不说话不会冒昧比较礼貌。如果对方这样做,你就点个头示意你知道就好了。别人感冒说句bless you.第一次见面不要说How are you doing 等第二次见面熟了以后再说How are u doing.至于天气,是last choice. First choice 是聊共同话题比如同专业同学校同公司的话题,或者比赛啥的,这样聊起啦比较有感情,有了感情就方便交换电话或联系方式来交进一步交朋友,如果有社交账号时常follow up就会更熟悉,以后办事自然方便。聊天时无话可谈时,为了break ice可以说说天气啥的,就像互相问吃了没有一样。其实社交规则和国内差不多,只是尺度和句式不一样罢了。
看别人的留学经历的心得总结
1.Email to advisor for advice who can have more time deliberate and it is also a proof to verify your testimony.
2.Calm down, do research and insist what you want when accidents happen to you. Health, good emotion and enough energy generate money. Anxiety and exhaustion can not solve the money problems.
3.Every story has a premise, you need to think independently.
4.The inspiration always follow the challenges. Keeping challenging yourself need a strong heart.
5.profound achievement requires profound thinking,notes, action and repetition. Find a book and repeat to digest it. Find a direction and insist doing it.
5.If you are puzzled, free yourself in 10 min doing whatever makes you relaxed and inspired. You will see your way out of the box.
6.Be a fast learner. Learn from task and orthers.Do not let your previous honor limits you.