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Do you agree with the following statement? In order to achieve happiness of yourself, you have to try to make other people happy.-
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In order to make happiness of ourselves, should we need to create the atmosphere bringing happiness to others? Some people argue that happiness is not related to others, because happiness that we build on our own. A countervailing school, including me, suggests that in most cases, our happiness actually relates to the happiness of others, especially living in the intense connected and communicated society.
First of all, one significant aspect I agree with is that happiness needs our own hands to set up rather than depending on others. Everyone has his/her own certain situations, so does the definition of happiness. Only through the hardworking and struggling for our target in life, the true happiness he/she could attain to. For example, when you think that going to the university abroad is the most happiness you want in the next year, the only thing for you is trying to get this aim as possible as you can rather than relying on other people's happiness, because nobody would replace you in this process.
Despite the merits of one's own happiness, and at first blush it might appear that happiness seems unrelated to others. However, in many other cases, the happiness is actually bases on the happiness of others. Two aspects would be illustrated as follows.
Firstly, our community does not seem signal, alone combination of many individuals, people would more or less have connection between each other which means that one's benefit would be under the influence on others. For example, when you are in a team work, such as the football team or the working group working together for one project, the happiness which greatly depends on the success of the team or group is contributed by all team members, so the happiness would definitely is the happiness of everyone together rather than individuals.
Secondly, happiness is much account to the contribution that you could devote to for others. For example, somebody hope living a happy life with his family. What he could do is to create the economical, living, emotional support for his family and create the happy living condition there. Only the happiness of every family member would finally amount to the happiness of your own.
In short, what should we concern on happiness? The happiness we achieve is greatly decided by ourselves, but without others’ happiness, we might lose the essence of happiness it is.
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