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发表于 2007-7-16 10:19:19 |只看该作者 |倒序浏览

issue 130孩子的是socialized对社会很重要，但是我们不知道如何抚养。
(1)定义socilalized及和社会命运的关系 (2)我们有一些方法抚养 (3)让步：尽管存在一些问题，我们还是能够improve education

There is much debate over children's important influence on the society. Some maintain that how children are socialized today determines the destiny of society. I strongly agree with this notion. However, when saying that we have not yet learned how to raise children to bring about a better society, I feel it a little extreme. I think, we actually know some ways to raise our children.

To begin with, we have to define the word "socialized". As far as I am concerned, it refers to the capability of our children acclimating to the society including such abilities as effective communication, cooperation and reflecting and so on. Any children, no matter how clever or cultured he is, has to live in the society by himself and find his own position when he grow up. That is to say, one has to gain enough ability to acclimatize himself to the circumstance. If he fails to adapt to the people around him and the way of life, he may be abandoned by the society. And if a generation fails to adapt to the society, then there will be full of chaos and confusion and then the whole society would backslide. On the contrary, if children are socialized well today, when they grow up, they may find themselves easy to communicate with the society, which is a foundation to bring boom. They can get resource from society with effective communication and process it with their reflecting and then put it back to the society and now it is superior than before. If most work is done in this way, then our society goes ahead. So, how children are socialized today does determine the destiny of society.

Children are vital to our society and obviously we have to find a good way to raise them to help contribute a better society. In fact, we do find some effective way. On the one hand, our children are cultured through education which enables them to study basic knowledge and on this foundation they can build the splendid architecture of innovation and creativity. On the other hand, our parents and teachers also instruct children about some merits such as honesty, persistence, probity, kindness and so on which is core lessons of formation of good personality. In this process, children can learn how they can get along with other people at the same time. Children with better knowledge and good personality can bring positive contribution when they grow up and walk into society.

Admitted, our education system including school education and family education is not mature yet. Some schools only focus on the academic performance of children and neglect their moral education while some parents take it for granted that education does nothing to do with them since it is school's obligation to educate their children. Though existing some problems, we still believe that we can improve our education system and raise our children well socialized to the society. Of course, it requires a combination of schools, parents and communities. Only when every parts of education realize their obligation can make our children develop comprehensive.