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发表于 2003-6-20 17:49:10 |只看该作者 |倒序浏览

发信人: tyyhedgehog (浑身长刺的猪), 信区: Visa
标题: 6.18 1000被拒（帮我分析分析吧）
发信站: BBS 水木清华站 (Thu Jun 19 21:45:55 2003), 转信

昨天在dtt处被拒。
背景：cs小本，from pku to umich. interest: database.
就像做梦一样，太快了，虽然排在dtt的那一队，我的情绪还是很稳定的。
甚至在他据我的时候，我都毫无心理变化。也许是这两天太亢奋了。
具体过程：
me：morning ,sir
vo: nice to meet you.blabla(没听清)your GT score?
me: here you are.
vo: why are you going to usa?(中途把mic的声音调大了一点)
me: pursue my phd in computer science and engineering in umich
vo: do you apply chinese univiversities?
me: no
vo: why
me: i have already been studying in the best university in china(被打断)
vo:(笑)you are the 3rd person today to say that, Thu or pku?
me: pku, and usa has the most advanced science and technology in the world,
especially in the field of database. i want to get better education there.
vo: what is your plan?
me: come back and be a researcher in databse area (被打断，in pku没有能够说出
来,所以就更没有机会给她看我老板的sl了)
vo: you have said usa has the best science and technology, why come back to
china?
me: because i have better opportunities in china. you see database plays a i
mportant role in a country's information industry. this area is well develop
ed in the USA while underdeveloped in china. So, china is in urgent need for
experts in database area to develop its information industry. I think this
is a wonderful opportunity for me to achieve my career goal. besides,the gov
ernment has made many favourable policies to the returnees such as research
funding,facilities,high position and salary. and also(说到这里有一点磕巴,vo
抬头看了我一眼，此前一直都在看电脑）china is my motherland, I am accustomed
to the social environment and culture here. I believe I have a brighter futu
re here.
Vo: blabla(没听懂)，盖章。Sorry I cant issue you visa now. blabla….
Me: thank you anyway.
Vo: thank you madam.
大概就3分钟吧，一切就都结束了。回来后自己仔细想了一想，我的回国计划太没有特色
了。这可能是他据我的主要原因。而且，在整个面试过程中我都太被动了，没有给她看
我准备的材料，比如说国内数据库市场的情况，sl, 一些回国学者的例子。我还天真的
想等他进一步纠缠的时候再出示这些材料，可是他好干脆呀。确实，我自己没能把握好
机会。希望没有签的人吸取我的教训吧。整个过程他还是很有礼貌的，虽然会打断我的
话。
我自己已经发现了自己的一些不足，请各位再帮我找找被拒的原因或者提点建议吧，我
想好好准备2000，不能再这样糊里糊涂的了。

是无可诉无可说的心绪
是笙歌散尽后的醉语
是就于唇边的那支青青短笛
是没有和唱的黄昏
飘散着的隐约旋律
是风未曾起雨未曾落的初夏
望不见的五彩裙裾
料得到的挥手别离

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