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Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? Is relate well to other people more important than studying hard at school?
It is not rare to see that some students who perform excellent academically have unbelievable poor relationships with others which make them incredibly lonely and introversive. Obviously, those students who just focus on study instead of developing a strong relationship with their friends, professors are more likely to suffer frustrations. As far as I am concerned, to university students, building a splendid relation with others is more significant than studding hard.
Initially, universities in modern society consist of different people, culture, religion and other indispensable elements. Therefore, if you want to survive in the fierce competitions, you must get along with others well. Studying hard may help you perform well academically but cannot help you survive in society directly. For example, my Uncle Tom was an outstanding student in the field of mathematics; he always came up with some creative solutions that even make professor surprised. Especially in 2009, he received a gold medal in the mathematics contest of a nation. However, other students accordant disliked him because of his impersonal manners. He never shared his study experiences with others and showed little interest in group activities. After graduation, Tom cannot find a job since he didn't understand the importance of cooperation and communication.
Sequentially, in a plural university, we must attach importance to interpersonal relationships, cooperation, and look at issues from the perspective of other people in order to make more friends who can fuel one's success. If a person wants to be a leader, he has to relate well to other people to make sure that everyone is willing to obey your management. My friend Tony was a CEO in a famous company, he was not an expert in his field, however, he was good at communicate with others and had fantastic teamwork skills. Besides, he was eager to help others and all employees were attracted and motivated by his grate personality. As a result, he made a big difference and became a millionaire.
Taking all these factors into account, interpersonal relations is more important than studying hard. On the one hand, a good relationship with others can help people survive in all kinds of competitions. On the other hand, it can also lead to success and make people more charming. |
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