像我这样的情况，应该走哪一条路呢？

dawnlakewaterUID: 2768951

各位好，刚看了几位前辈的帖子，很有点感同身受的感觉~~

本人现在在一所国内前五的高校读研一，女生，入学半年后，觉得硕士的生活很平淡，实验和论文是老师们关注的全部，但究竟有多大意义我不晓得。恍然发现自己没了目标，没了动力，我不喜欢现在这种安逸的生活。

出国是我一直以来的一个梦想，
但我想出国不是为了学历，而是想多一些经历，到外面去看看，到处走走。

目前有两种打算：
1.硕士期间好好表现，报考G\T，毕业的时候申请国外的博士，男朋友的问题到时再考虑；
2.博士也在国内读，期间找个好老公，毕业的时候找份好工作，买套房子，等一切稳定下来，申请国外的博士后或者访问学者之类的；

像我这样的情况，应该走哪一条路呢？

yuxiaoUID: 2135645

对大众来说，我觉得第二条，如果你能完成的话。买房子挺难的啊……

大兵归来UID: 2751047

楼上的大众是什么意思 我觉的楼主走第一条路 不成走第二条路 我是这么想的 不过我是男生 想法完全一样 不过我的学校是二类 我自动化

节俭的D同学UID: 2625249

为什么一定要读博呢

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4# 节俭的D同学
考研的时候我觉得自己需要再提高一些，不为学历、不为工作，读研后发现跟想象的学术根本不同。为什么读博呢？硕士、博士、博士后，顺序是这样安排的，我也不知道除了读书还有什么理由可以光明正大的去国外呆两三年。

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3# 大兵归来
如果走第一条路，就意味着在国外读博，这个过程可能是三五年，也可能更长，我不晓得自己耗不耗得起，如果毕业归国后就业反而比现在差，怎么办？国外的工作也不是好找的，哎~~前怕狼，后怕虎，矛盾啊！！

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2# yuxiao
毕竟是女生，终生幸福不容蹉跎~那也是没办法的事~

Gil.ZeroUID: 2329473

Don't know which major you are. If medicine or biology or even pharm., it will be hard to find a job at US, not sure about China now.
Then if you just want to have some experience, 1 or 2 are both OK. 1 can be 5 years, but 2 could be even longer. So, find a boyfirend, evn a good husband, then you can talk together about the future.
Many girls have "American Dream", and the dream is actually not that sweet, but as it is a dream everyday, you should better try it once someday.

dawnlakewaterUID: 2768951

Don't know which major you are. If medicine or biology or even pharm., it will be hard to find a job at US, not sure about China now.
Then if you just want to have some experience, 1 or 2 are both OK ...
Gil.Zero 发表于 2010-2-24 23:58

thanks for your suggestion ,
i am majoring in food hygiene and nutrition ,
frankly ,i feel confused about what u said ,
for i thought the 1st choice took longer time ,not the 2nd one,
'cause in china u can finish your doctoral study in 3 years ,
while in US it may cost at least 5 years , isnn't it?

yuxiaoUID: 2135645

我觉得第二条路的难点在于博士毕业后的工作和房子吧。如果你博士毕业能找到好工作，也能买到房子，也能找到老公，那么无疑选第二条路。

如果你无论在哪里读书，毕业都要回国的话，我觉得出国读个博士，回来的路反而窄。

ainiunaiUID: 2760351

我跟LZ一样的纠结啊，咱留个QQ吧，312881434，LZ喜不喜欢HK呢？毕竟是女生，年纪大了不好找男朋友的，我要出国，开始我爸同意的，现在也不同意了，说年纪大了啊什么的，所以我很纠结啊。。。
建议LZ第二条，除非你硕士期间找好男朋友一起出国吧，不要博士回来年纪一大把了。。
或者你喜欢HK的话，这里读完硕士，去HK读博士

Gil.ZeroUID: 2329473

thanks for your suggestion ,
i am majoring in food hygiene and nutrition ,
frankly ,i feel confused about what u said ,
for i thought the 1st choice took longer time ,not the 2nd one,
'cause in  ...
dawnlakewater 发表于 2010-2-25 15:20

You are comparing the time of already got a PhD degree with the time you will just landed on US for post odc, that's not fair.

I mean for your final goal, stay at US and have some experiences.
1. You can go to US at once, then at US, before you graduation, it will take you 5 or more years for the US experience you expect.
2. you need a Doc. degree at China, which costs 3 years at China, then at US, It think 2 to 3 years of Post-Doc experience are what you want, 1 or 2 years are not enough for just get a feel of US. Then it will take totally 5 to 6 or even more years for you to get the US. living experience you want.

Is it clear now. Hope not that confusing.

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10# yuxiao
恩，有道理，我会慎重考虑的，O(∩_∩)O谢谢你~

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12# Gil.Zero
now i see ,finally~~ :)
thanks very very much for your detailed explanation ~~
i will think it over before make any decision ,
thanks again ~~

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11# ainiunai
好，我加你~~