温柔一刀，1000被据（ZZ）

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发信人: g21 (上帝保佑), 信区: Visa      
标  题: 温柔一刀，1000被据（ZZ）
发信站: BBS 水木清华站 (Tue Jun  3 12:17:26 2003), 转信

发信人: cd (CD), 信区: AdvancedEdu
标  题: 温柔的陷阱,1000被拒
发信站: 北大未名站 (2003年06月03日12:08:48 星期二) , 站内信件
6:00起床,充满希望
打车到西直门，地铁到永安里。7:30
11:30回到宿舍，满是失望
vo:windows 9，vo很高，帅帅的青年男子。
me: PKU undergradute, go to PhD in Molecular Biology, Genetics and Biochemis
try
in University of California, Irvine.
me：Good morning, sir. Nice to meet you.:)
vo: Nice to meet you, too. What's the purpose of your visa?:)
me: I will study for my PhD degree in University of California, Irvine.
vo: Why University of California, Irvine?
me: Because my Chinese advisor came back from the California Institue of Tec
hnol
ogy. And as you know, CIT is not far from UCI. Though UCI is not the best un
iver
sity in the United States, its stuctural biology is very stong.
vo: Talk something about your research.
me: I am currently in a structural biology lab in Peking University, and our
pro
ject is Structural Genome Project, blabla..
vo: How long have you been working for this?
me: One year. You can see from my resume. Here you are.
vo: And your GT score?
me: Yeah, it is behind the resume.(我的一叠材料包括，resume, offer letter, t
rans
cript，其他学校的offer letter)
vo: Your score is very high.
me: Thank you. Just so so.
vo: What will you do after graudation?
me: Come back to work in a biotech company.
vo: What kind of biotech company?
me: Maybe pharmacial or companies that sell durgs?(犹豫了一下，怕durg引起敏感
问?br />
，可能被怀疑没有好好想过这个问题，大失败）
vo: Can you tell me some details?
me: Chinese goverment put much effort on biotech industry and the market is
expa
nding,blabla.......
vo: (Seeing my transcript) ya, chemistry, Dengxiaoping Theory. :)
me: :) yeah, I got quite a high score in it because you just need to remembe
r so
mething. :)
vo: :) yeah. How many members your family have?
me: blabla...
vo: Do you have any sister or brothers?弟弟？姐姐？妹妹？（中文）
me: I have a youger brother.
vo: How old is him?
me: Sixteen, no, seventeen.
vo: Sorry, I cann't give you visa today.
me: Why?
vo: *****you have no work experience....blabla
me: Can you give me one minute, I will explain.
vo: Ok.
me: Work experience is not important, because I will do research in company.

If I am a BS, I can only be a technician, and will do research in low levels
whi
le cann't learn something new. But a PhD will make me a project leader...bla
bla
vo: I am sorry, based on the Law of United States...Blabla（盖章）
me: Thank you.
面试过程气氛非常融洽，当我听到I am sorry的时候，我楞住了。那个时候再反抗已经
太晚
了。
教训：
1。要agressive，不要消极。我就是因为太保守，很多准备好的优点都没有说。
2。不要因为气氛好就放松警惕。整个就是一个温柔的陷阱，这种情况下听到I am sorr
y的?br />
候，
一切都太晚了。
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