迟来的签经：6，9 BJ1000 PASS---美男手下留情

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发信人: sdyanzi (yanzi), 信区: Visa      
标  题: 迟来的签经：6，9 BJ1000 PASS---美男手下留情
发信站: BBS 水木清华站 (Thu Jun 12 18:11:24 2003)

6,9北京美男手下留情
因为签过是三天前的事情，很多细节记不清楚了。我把能想到的比较重要的写给大家。算
作一个回报，给水母，给所有的gters。
签证实录
Vo非常地道的读出我名字的汉语发音，yanzi笑着走过去
yanzi:Good morning ,sir!
vo:good morning! Will you go to ****?
Yanzi: yes, I will pursue my phd of computational mathematics there.
Vo: why chose ****?
Yanzi: It is recommended by my advisor. Our department has cooperation with **
**. The vice president –Pf. Ewing had visited our University and he is the ho
nor pf of our university. My advisor is familiar with him. He encouraged me to
learn more advanced knowledge of computational mathematics in ***** and come
back to further the research in our department..
（可能这是我比较占优势的地方,****的副校长正好和我的专业相同，并且来过我们学校）

Vo: what’s your major?
Yanzi: I major in computational mathematics.
Vo: computational mathematics? Why it is mathematics in yourI-20?
(我的I-20上面不知道什么原因写的是mathematics, Vo眼光好敏锐，我只好实话实说了)

Yanzi: I don’t know the reason exactly. Maybe the department just write it.
Vo(不再纠缠): ok. Tell me something about computational mathematics.
(美男开始敲电脑，用左手的一只手指和右手配合，这一指法估计在大使馆独此一人吧)
Yanzi: Computational mathematics is a branch of applied mathematics. It is pri
marily concerned with blabla………….
Vo: why not pursue in Shandong Univ instead of in ******?
Yanzi: Frankly speaking, my advisor told me studying in US will greatly help m
e with my future in China. He is a success of this kind. In fact, many of prof
essors in our department have the experience of studying in US and they are in
the lead in our field in China. Maybe I am influenced by them. Many of papers
and articles I read is form the professors of US.
（美男停下手里的活计，两手交叉，身体前倾，专注的看着我，我仰视他蓝色的眼睛，确
实很帅帅：））
Vo: many of professors in your department had studied in US? How many?
(ft，我随便说了两句，就被他抓住了。只好硬着头皮上了~~~~~~)
Yanzi: About five or six.
Vo: It is not too many.
Yanzi: Well, it is only a part. Some of them go to US, some of them go to UK,
some of them go to Canada, Japan, HK. My advisor came back from US and succeed
ed in China. So he recommended me to study in US and come back to further the
research in China..
(美男点点头，继续盯着我问。可能他那个时候电脑坏了，就索性直接看着我对话)
Vo: what will you do after you graduate from ******?
Yanzi: I want to be a professor in Shandong University, to do research work wi
th my advisor in the field of numerical analysis. My advisor is a returnee for
m US and now he is the top in his field in China. I believe with the advanced
knowledge from US , we will be pioneers in Chinese.
Vo: What about the salary for a pf in Shandong Univ?
Yanzi: About 4000/m.
Vo:4000/m? It’s not too much.
Yanzi: You know, salary is not all income for a researcher. A researcher has m
any ways to earn profit. For example, you succeeded finishing an industrial pr
oject, you will share more profit from it. Currently, the total income of my a
dvisor is about 100,1000 per year. It is enough to provide a comfortable life
in China.
Vo: do you have any supporting letter?
Yanzi: Yes,.This is the supporting letter from my current advisor, and these a
re some photos of us.
Vo(reading and thinking)
Yanzi: Sir, I also have a supporting from my future advisor, would you like to
have a look?
Vo:ok
Yanzi: here you are and this is his hompage..
Vo: Is he an American?
Yanzi:he is from Russia.
Vo: Why he did not come back to Russia instead of staying in US?
(ft,没有想到他会在这里做文章。其实准备的时候没有想到，这也是一个陷阱。如果导师非美国人的同学，可以考虑一下这个问题)
Yanzi: Well, I don’t know where he will go. It is not important for me. He is
my future advisor , I will study with him and he is excellent in our field, t
hese are what I care. Maybe he will go back to Russia, maybe he will stay in U
S. He has his own reason for his choice. I don’t know about it.
(当时确实很紧张，乱说一气，也不知道他有没有听明白我的意思，但是我想我的表情和语
气比较坦诚，美男应该理解了,他把教授的主页还给我)
Vo: Oh, give me your G/T
Yanzi: here you are.
Vo: did you apply these universities on the sheet?
Yanzi: No. Actually, at that time, I did not decide which university I will go
to study. You know, this is an important choice for my future. I had visited
many univ’s website, studied their research work and courses. With the advice
for my advisor and my own consideration, I choose *****, I believe it is the
best suitable for me.
(美男点点头，敲了两下电脑，转过身子来)
Vo:There is something wrong with my computer, I cannot print you name on it. W
ould you come here tomorrow?
Yanzi: ok. When should I come?  
Vo: Anytime.
（明天见？不明白到底是据是放，临走索性问美男）
Yanzi: Sir, Do you mean you will issue my visa tomorrow?
Vo:yes
Yanzi: thank you, sir! Nice meeting you!

感受：
1，签证真的是运气。我没有想到能排到美男手下，也没有想到他电脑坏了还能放水：）。
当时我那一队我前面的几个都过了，但都是第二天去取。
2，有一点很重要就是要和他交流，其实我的口语并不好，当时他问的几个问题，我也是s
orry了几次，和他大眼瞪小眼：）但是我想可能我的表情和语气非常的自然， 就是和他坦
诚沟通的样子。他都没有介意，反而我在纠正自己某一个单词的发音的时候，他笑了，因
为我虽然发错了音，他也明白了我的意思。
美男也并非时时都是水车，第二天我去领签证，当场就看他据了几个f1。
3，做好充分的准备，这样才能有自信，才能大胆的和他说。并不是说一定要把所有的问题
都背下来，心里有答案，随时随地可以组织才是关键。
注意回答的时候把你最有利的方面最先摆出来，既要答其所问，又要答非所问。占据主动
，把你的回答引向有利于你的方向！

致谢：要谢的人太多了。这么长时间一直为出国忙碌着，如果没有亲人和朋友的关心，我
不知道自己能不能坚持下来。
先谢玉和玉的老公，在北京冒雨接我，早上6点起床冒雨陪我找使馆。玉的老公说他有很灵
的第六感，我肯定能过。呵呵，其实如果当天早上不是他不知道使馆的路领我兜了一大圈
才找到，让我与美男相遇，我还不知道会栽在谁的手上呢。
谢谢golry,snow,ting陪我练口语。Golry 是我的启蒙教师，我的口语太烂了，golry非常
耐心的陪我说，给我鼓励。每天陪我，帮我填表，提醒我各种问题和注意的事情，我一定
要好好谢谢你。预祝你Canada之行顺利！Snow是专家，和你的对练让我提高很快，受益匪
浅。自信、胆大、微笑就是从你那里培养出来的！
谢谢feng,benben,dou,xiu和所有的朋友，你们的友谊是我今生最大的财富！
谢谢爸爸妈妈，哥哥和姐姐，不管我做出什么决定，你们都一如既往地支持我，相信我！

谢谢fox在我寄托路上的鼓励和陪伴，我一直想你就是我的幸运之星！从G\T到visa，你一
直都比我更加坚定，直到最后放弃那么多东西，孤注一掷北京一签，你都比我更有信心。
今年的本命年虽然被你给摔了一大跤，可能好运就是这么摔出来的：）不过以后再也不敢
坐你的车子了~~~~~~~
最后谢bf吧。心中有你的支持才能坚持下来，希望能永远陪在你的身边。


最后，祝所有的xdjm1000pass!