2000, ee. pass.

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发信人: nicrosoft (只比微软差一竖), 信区: Visa
标  题: 2000, ee. pass.
发信站: BBS 水木清华站 (Thu Jun 26 15:06:31 2003)

很长时间一直在这里潜水，今天论到我出来了。
非典型F1，已婚，育有一子。工作一年。

1000遇到dtt，今天又遇到他，自动回避，分到9号窗口一个很老的VO，但
很nice。

m: Nice to meet you,sir. Here you are the card.
V: How long have you woked in this company?
m: 1 year.
v: from when:
m: last july.
v: your salary?
m:8300.I have my company's work certificate, Do you want to see it?
v: Yes.
(hand in the certificate, vo have a look on it, and write 8300/m on
DS156.)
v; Why do you give up this job?
m:(smile in heart, i'm waitting this question)
Sir,you know,there must be an end for this job if I do not update
myself. I got my master degree from Tsinghua University. After worked in xxx c
ompany, especilly after I came back from France,I found my
current knowledge architur and knowledge base are not enough for my
future development in China. After discussing with my wife,we agree that I put
my job aside temporily and continue my Phd education, so that I would make a
solid ground for my future develpment in China.
v: Are you married?(this is also my wanted question.)
m: Yes.
v; when?
m: in 1999. Do you want to see our marriage certificate?
(vo play computer, I hand in the certificate, vo donot look)
m; my wife now is the key letcutre in her university. You know,her caree objec
t is to be professor.And she will be promoted to associate professor next year
. I think this is very important for her.(disruppted by vo)

v:what your plan after graduation?
m: of course come back to beijing living with my wife and my son.
you know, What I learn in my Phd study will provide china in this industry a n
ew method for the engineer to shorten this desin time and yield more optimal d
esigns. This is very import for china. China lost about 20 billion RMB in this
field because of design problem. With Tsinghua master degree and a Phd from U
SA, i'm very confident to find a good position in this field.
(VO noded)

If I stay in american, my wife will stay american. But this is unfair for her.
For she has to start from ground. I love her. I can not do that.

v: so you will came back with families?
m: Yes. Sir. I told you, I can not stay in USA. Its unfaire for my wife.I can
not do that.

v; Go to window 10.
m: thank you sir. Have a nice day.

总结：
为了说明我是有srong tie， 我特意加了一句discussing with my wife,用来引导vo向
这方面问。我还特意强调我去过法国，给他看照片的时间，还顺口提了一下我去过英国，

照片里面也有在英国的照片，不知道他有没有看见过。
在去使馆的时间，想起来要用unfair这个词在我wife身上。我重复了两边It's unfair fo
r my wife. I cannot do that.不知有没有用。
感觉比较怪，vo连专业都没问我。

感谢：
首先是我lp了。其次谢谢一起聊天的签友。nkok2003你一定可以过的。相信自己。
不知道xieyp今天怎么样。祝福你。还有paleoclimate，flyyu，SYY77，greatman，
wccw，bravebobo，windmill。都祝福你们。谢谢你们的帮助。